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A mediocre Master tells, a good Master teaches, an intelligent Master explains, but a true Master inspires.

So who am I? Interesting question, on many different levels. Outwardly Im sane, professional, upstanding, supportive, reasonable, loving, trusting, funny, and not too bad looking, or so Ive been told. Once the bedroom door swings creakily closed, my Dom side emerges. I am happy to be a 247 Dom, for the right person

I am a Dom, not psychotic, a little sadistic, and a twisted pervert, in the nicest way. I dont confuse domination with lack of education or disrespect to those who define themselves as submissives or slaves.

A DomSub or Domslave relationship is just that, a relationship and has to be founded on respect, built with love, and cherished with obedience. I dont consider BDSM as a of sexual exploration or degradation. Humiliation has its place, but tempered with the knowledge that it is based on respect. In my concept, a D s relationship is based on friendship, common interests and complicity.

Half of me is slightly sadistic, endowed with lots of dark humour, and the other half is the controlling side, that likes to see things tied up in ropes unable to move and ready for use.

So, email me and find out more, and be prepared for a funfilled journey of exploration...

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 zddd

 Dominant Male

 Dublin 

 Ireland

 5' 9"

 198 lbs

 45

 Pan

 Multicultural

 12/22/05

 02/27/21

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Loves:

 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Travel

 Running

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Blindfolds

 Body Worship

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars

 Corner Time (Expert)

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 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Foot Worship

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 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Spanking

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 Whips

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 Movies

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9/16/2013 2:57:06 AM

My Ideal Slave

Someone who I can communicate with, and set out our expectations of each other in advance.

Someone who respects my limits and knows her own limitations.

Someone who is patient, honest and respectful.

Someone who derives their pleasure from mine.

Someone who values her submissive and considers him to be her equal.

Someone who is looking to enhance her life and mine.

Obedience and servitude and trust are necessary qualities.

 


9/12/2013 4:30:43 AM

A Master’s Commitment to his slave…..

You are my slave.
You are my responsibility.
You give yourself to me completely, and I take you completely. This means when you need me, I am there. When you need tenderness, I am tender. When you need love, I am loving. When you need correction, I am strict.
You are my property. You are also a person. I take care of my property, and I love the person.
Mastering you is much more than discipline, play, pain, and aftercare. It is taking care of the whole person. Knowing what you need and want. Providing for you. Knowing your past, and knowing how to help carry the baggage of a lifetime.
Mastering you is helping you heal from any pain life has brought you.
Mastering you is knowing when to be strict, kind, loving, brutal, caring, or anything you need.
Mastering you is knowing all of you, and caring for every part.
Mastering you is providing a safe world for you. A world inside me, with my heart completely open to you.
By surrendering yourself to me, you complete me.

 


4/10/2013 7:49:50 AM

Some observations on life, written by a 90 year old:

 

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for things that matter.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, enjoy it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful.  Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to be happy.  But it’s all up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose Life.

28. Forgive but don’t forget.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.

42. The best is yet to come…

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.


3/2/2013 8:01:49 AM

I saw this on a Sub's site, and had to re-post as i enjoyed it, hope you do too...

ten things I love about you...

1. The tone in your voice when when you tell me to bend over and spread my ass pussy for you.

2. The moment I start to get cold feet as you lube me up.

3. The sting of your hand as you slap my face for not sucking you deep enough.

4. The way you look at me when I'm on my knees with your cock stuffed in my mouth.

5. The names you call me.

6. The sound of your camera phone.

7. The feeling of your hard cock sliding inside me, and pushing hard.

8. The way you keep thrusting even after i think I can't take any more.

9. The feeling of your cum on my face as it cools and drips to the floor.

10. The way you walk away and leave me on my knees without a word when you are done with me.

 

Marvelous!


3/24/2012 1:23:32 AM

Did everyone have a good Friday night? Here's the perfect way to end the week....

 

It had been a long busy day. The secretary had worked diligently to complete an important document for her boss by the close of business. She was wearily gathering her things, and preparing to leave when her boss asked her to step into his office for a moment.

She had always found him attractive which made her slightly nervous in his presence. Today was even worse as he was dressed for his business engagement later that evening...starched white shirt, blue tie, black suspenders, dress pants. She nearly swooned each time she went into his office today.

As soon as she stepped over the threshold to his office, he slapped her completed report down on his desk and asked,

"Do you know what this is, Mrs. Jones?"

"Yes, sir. It is your report I just finished for you this afternoon," she replied, nervously shifting from one foot to the other.

"This, Mrs. Jones, is a piece of crap! This is the worst excuse for accuracy I have ever seen," he bellowed.

"I, I'm s-s-sorry, Sir", she stammered, on the verge of tears.

She reached for the report, promising, "I'll take it to my desk and correct it right now."

"Mrs. Jones, this report is so full of errors and mistakes, you can't possibly correct it by the time I am to present it to the investors at 8 o'clock tonight. The way I see it, you have two options....."

She waited expectantly for her two choices.

"You may either stay late every night for the next week correcting the report for the meeting I will now have to reschedule. I doubt your husband will like that very much, now will he, Mrs. Jones?"

She slowly shook her head no, feeling a bit apprehensive.

"Or.....you can stay late tonight and take your punishment like the good little girl I know you are."

She stood staring at him, his meaning slowly dawning on her.

"Well, Mrs. Jones, which is it going to be?"

She paused a moment before slowly turning to close and lock his door.

"That's a good girl. I knew you would make the right choice for yourself."

"Come here and stand in front of me," he directed.

She complied obediently.

He ran his hands up the sides of her thighs, underneath her skirt as she stood there. She could see a bulge forming in his pants. She tried not to notice. She tried not to think about anything right at this moment.

He took her hand and gently tugged at her while patting his lap.

"Go on, Mrs. Jones, you know what you need to do."

She meekly laid herself across his lap. Let out a small gasp, when he lifted her skirt and pulled her white, satin panties down around her knees.

"Such a sweet little ass," he murmured as he rubbed.

She heard him fumbling around in his pen caddy on his desk. Then felt the sharp sting of the ruler he had removed from it.

"Such a shame you require such discipline, Mrs. Jones."

"Yes Sir, yes," she replied softly. Alarmed that she felt herself growing a little wet with each sting of the ruler.

Without warning, his hand slapped down on her. She jumped and cried out.

He continued to slap, over and over, harder and harder until she was squirming around on his lap, his erection poking into her middle.

"Please, Sir, I'll work harder. I'll do better, I promise, Sir."

"I know you will, dear. I'm going to see to that." he cooed as he gently rubbed her bright red ass before pulling her panties back up.

'Why don't you start by getting under my desk, and showing me what a good worker you are, sweetheart."

She crawled under his desk, and waited for her instructions.

"Take your blouse off for me, dear," he whispered softly.

She slowly undid the buttons of her blouse, her hands shaking a little, her pussy disturbingly wet.

When she had removed the blouse, she looked up at him expectantly.

"Come here," he beckoned as he pulled her up to her knees in front of him.

He kissed her softly as he reached around her, unhooked her bra and let it fall to the floor.

He took her pink, hard nipples between his fingers and twisted viciously. She gasped, arched her back, and felt a gush of wetness between her legs even as he hissed,

"That's just a reminder of why you're here, dear. You are here because you are such an incompetent slut."

With that, he stood up and shoved her back under the desk, her head banging painfully against it.

She watched as he pulled down his black suspenders, unbuckled his belt, unzipped his pants, pulled them down to his ankles, and sat back down in the chair.

His cock stood large and throbbing, as he beckoned her,

"Come here and show me what good work you do, angel"

She cautiously crept from under the desk, to take him in her mouth.

He groaned as her lips wrapped around him. She slowly worked his full length to the back of her throat, relaxing her throat as she had taught herself to do to accommodate his large cock. Her head began to bob up and down as her tongue circled his shaft. She could taste his excitement as it oozed from the tip of his cock which caused a throbbing pleasure to build between her legs. She looked up at him, wanting to enjoy the expression of pleasure her work must surely be causing on his face, only to have him roughly slap her face, barking,

"Keep your eyes down, whore. Focus on your work."

She sucked faster and harder, her hands twisting up and down his wet member. He thrust his hips at her, her hand banging against the desktop as he did so, urging his cock deeper and deeper into her throat until he released with a loud groan, his hot load spilling down the back of her throat. She swallowed greedily, silently noting the wetness that was now drenching her panties and seeping down the insides of her thighs.

"Stand up, dear. I'm not quite through with your lesson today."

She did as she was told. Bent over his desk as she was directed, and laid there, head down, awaiting her next instructions as he opened his desk drawer, searching for something.

She soon felt him him bent down at her feet, the warmth of his lips on her leg kissing her ankle, before driving her legs apart. She felt her heart skip a beat as he quickly wrapped restraints around each ankle and secured her spread legs to the desk.

He walked around to the front of the desk, handcuffs dangling in his hands.

She lifted her head now, "Sir, please, no. I'll work late all next week; I'll work late for the next month. Please, Sir, don't do this."

"You made your choice earlier, Mrs. Jones. There is no going back now. We must finish your instruction. It really is for the best, you'll see."

With a sigh, and deep resignation, she offered her wrists to him, which he cuffed in front of her.

He walked back to his chair and sat down. From this vantage point he could best observe her helpless form.....legs spread and secured to each desk leg, hands manacled in front of her, satiny white ass staring at him.

"What is this, Mrs. Jones? Are your panties wet?" he asked as he observed the wet stain between her legs, spreading down to each thigh.

"Yes, Sir," she whispered, ashamed of her excitement.

She heard him fumbling around in his pen caddy again, then felt a cold, steel object lightly being run over her panties. When her mind registered that this object was also sharp as he applied pressure to it, she realized with a start what it was....scissors.

She felt the scissors run down the inside of her thigh, ever so lightly brushing along her pussy lips.

"Sir, please, please, put those away. I'm frightened, Sir. Please put them away," she begged, tears beginning to form in the corner of her eyes.

"Don't worry, my angel. I won't hurt you...much," he whispered, as he ran the scissors down the outside of her thigh leaving the tiniest trail of blood. With that, he swiftly cut her panties from her body, as she lay panting on the desk.

She felt him walk around to stand in front of her. He grabbed a fistful of hair and pulled her head up to look at them. The panties were rubbed against her face.

"Smell that. What do you smell, Mrs. Jones?"

"Me," she answered softly.

"Yes, you. Aroused, wet, aching for a good fuck, isn't that right, Mrs. Jones?"

She nodded her head.

His grip tightened on her hair.

"What's that? I can't hear you," he barked.

"Yes, sir. My panties smell wet."

"Why are you wet, Mrs. Jones?"

"Because I want you, Sir. I want you to take me; I want you to teach me to be a good girl."

With that, he stuffed her soaked panties into her mouth, and let her head fall heavily back to the desk.

She lay there trembling and anxious. Her head started up when she heard a knock on the outside door.

He leaned over, pressed the weight of his body against hers and hissed,

"Not a sound or I'll let whoever that is come in here and fuck you senseless."

He zipped himself up, and left the room, leaving her alone and vulnerable to whatever he might wish to happen next. She felt cold, she felt ashamed, but her pussy betrayed her as it throbbed and twitched in anticipation of his next move.

She heard conversation at the front door, and after some time, he returned...alone.

"I offered him a taste of you," he whispered as he bent down in front of her, "but he said he doesn't fuck whores."

"Now let's see, where were we?" he mused as he returned behind her.

"Ah yes, I was about to fuck your pretty ass," he growled as he gripped her hips and plunged inside her without warning.

"Teach....you....a....lesson," he grunted as he pounded her with all his might. Her body bounced up and down on the desk as he worked her over, her cries muffled by the sex soaked panties still stuffed in her mouth.

He reached around to rub her aching clit.

"Damn, you are such a wet little slut" he declared as he stroked her needy clit.

She felt her body giving way, giving in to the pleasure. Her hands clawed at the desk, she moaned deeply into her wet panties, her pussy gushed as she clamped down around him, pulsing, pulsing, pulsing......

His hands were in her hair again, jerking her head off the desk.

"Did you come, slut? Did I just feel you come on my cock?"

She nodded her head, her eyes wide with fear.

"I didn't tell you to cum. What the hell were you thinking? Such an undisciplined little whore you are."

She felt his cock slide wetly out of her. Heard him fumbling around in the pen caddy again. This time he showed her the object he had removed before he ever touched her with it...a long, silver, letter opener.

"What am I going to do with you, Mrs. Jones? How will you ever learn to please me?" he questioned as he lightly traced the object along her bare ass.

When she felt it slide between her pussy lips, she began to struggle.

He removed it, placed a kiss on her wet pussy and whispered, "Relax. If you struggle, it will only make it worse."

He traced the object again between her lips as she held perfectly still. She felt it pressing into her clit, wanted to grind her hips against it, but didn't dare. She felt the object slide wetly back between her lips, slip just inside her wet hole. She moaned with pleasure now, the cold steel warmed by her own heat, slick with her own desire. He moved the object in and out of her, twisting it delicately inside her until she felt her legs begin to buckle with desire. She mewed as he removed it from her, leaned into her ear and whispered,

"Next time I'll shove it in deeper, my angel. Count on it."

With that, he plunged his cock into her tight asshole, his cock already lubricated by the juices from her soppy pussy. Fucking her fast and hard, for his own pleasure, making a mess of her pretty little ass as he came all deep inside her bowels.

When he had finished, he mercifully undid her restraints and ordered her to go to the bathroom to clean herself up. When she reached for her clothes he chided,

"Uh, uh, uh, those stay here, dear"

She padded self consciously through the office hallway to the restroom. Cleaned herself up as best she could and returned to him.

He was now fully clothed. He threw her clothes at her, barking at her to put her clothes on, he was tired of her being naked in his office.

He watched with lust still smoldering in his eyes as she awkwardly dressed in front of him.

When she was done, he came over to her.

"Now Mrs. Jones, I hope your have learned your lesson. Go on home and let's pretend this never happened."

"Yes, Sir," she agreed as she scurried out of his office, guiltily wondering what sort of punishment her next mistake would bring.


3/3/2012 11:07:34 PM
The Dominant's Creed

 

  Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all.

He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.

He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character.

In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure.

To win his submissive's mind, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction.

He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on.

He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences.

When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without good reason. When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.

He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.

He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.

He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.

He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.


8/29/2011 11:11:46 PM

Morning all,

 

I had a very interesting day yesterday. I had a long and intense MSN exchange with a slave from the far east. I was pleasantly surprised by her intelligence, she was one of the most well adjusted people i've spoken to in a while, makes a change from some of the poor specimen that you see around here!

 

Anyway, she reminded me of the fundamentals of Master/Slave domination. Women are vassals, to be used, filled and for the sole purpose of gratifying their Master, nothing more than that. Once they come to accept that, the world will be a happier place. Of course they may try to resist, and that is a matter a Master should take firmly in hand, permitting no lip whatsoever, he should ruthlessly and cruelly put down any attempt to push the boundaries. 

 

Sometimes i forget the simple things in life!

 

Master G


8/12/2011 6:51:17 AM

hi all

 

This journey of self discovery is leading evermore onwards and upwards.

 

I'm finally coming to the inescapable conclusion, which i had suspected for many years, is that i'm simply a sadist by definition. I enjoy creating and inflicting pain, it shuffles my shells, turns me on, it presses al lthe right buttons. I also like having people doing painful or humiliating things for me, the more humilaiting the better. It's the humiliation that is felt by the subject that is most important, what is humiliating for one would barely cause the faintest blush to another. Mental or emotional humiliation is even better, the deepest pain and scars are always inside lol

 

So, any volunteers?


8/5/2011 11:11:48 PM

Morning all!

 

Hope everyone has a great weekend in store, I'm off to visit a friend in Galway, so it'll be interesting to see what scene if any exists there. She's an old friend, who used to switch, but i haven't seen her in over 5 years and i sincerely hope she hasn't converted to the vanilla lifestyle. Watch this space for an update on Monday!

 

Til then, have a great one!!!

 

xx


8/2/2011 6:27:04 AM

Morning all, after some time away from actual participation in CM, i'm back, with a bang, a thwack and shriek, not from me of course, on the bare buttock envisioned tied helplessy before me, lol

 

I've been very remiss in posting to date, but i'll definately try and make that up this month. I've been writing some stories, anyone like to hear a few?


4/19/2006 1:59:31 AM

Phew, what a ride this site is. I've only really started using it properly over the last couple of days, and am having a great time. I waster lots of time before on another site, which shall remain nameless, and this one restores my faith in the web!!

Anyway, cruised lots of nice profiles, emailed one or two, and started hitting the chatroom. I can see this as being addictive, so i'll try and limit my day on here..... well, a little bit anyways.


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