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Male Switch, 21, quincy, Florida
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Male Dominant, 23, cleveland, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 56, Nashville, Tennessee
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About zanderx
About me:
I'm 40 something, work, love outdoors, animals and traveling.
After years of contemplating, I've decided to take the plunge and explore what's out there (on collarspace). I was here over a decade ago and met some wonderful people. After a amicably ending long term relationship and several years of (hopefully some) self improvement, I feel I'm now ready to put myself out there.
I've always been aware of my deep rooted sub side. Ever since I was a kid, I knew I wanted to "serve", it started out with women in power, my teachers, female doctors. Soon it was all genders as I hit puberty. I think it is so deep rooted, it has even altered my sexual preference, making me bisexual (or pan).
What am I looking for?
I seek to serve, while being able to explore my sub side. While my fantasies run crazy, deep, dark and taboo even, I understand reality may be quite different. And my experience so far has been quite limited (although not completely zero). But I know I want to push myself, and try to keep peeling the onion (of self and ego) so I can eventually experience what being a true sub (or should I dare say slave) really means.
So, I'm hoping to reach out to dominant women with the hope to earn an opportunity to serve them. I'd love to serve dominant men, trans men/women and any gender really. (I'm bisexual). I'm also very exited about the thought of serving couples, as it brings a charged dynamic in itself.
Who am I outside of here?
I work hard, aspire to grow in my career, and try to live a fairly balanced life. I've my shit together for the most part. Outside of work, I enjoy sailing, skiing, tennis, windsurfing (learning) and traveling. I really enjoy beach and mountain destinations. Nature and spirituality. Have lived in Seattle for over 15 years. I'm currently fostering 3 long term rescue dogs that I'm hoping to find a permanent home for.
My future (or my eternal conflict)?
I can see my life going forward in a few different directions. One is where I stay on my current path, navigating life and work, building a career while providing for my loved ones (parents) and enjoying my hobbies like sailing, traveling. One is where I serve humanity by helping animals, bringing peace and fighting for animal welfare, dedicating a large portion of my life towards that cause. One is where I go all-in into a D/S lifestyle, should I meet that perfect someone. Or maybe there is a world where all of these merge, who knows. I'm a man of universe, destiny and fate.
PS: You can see more pictures on Fetlife and I'll share them privately.
My fetlife https://fetlife.com/xanderx
My tumblr https://www.tumblr.com/femdom-thinker
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