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About zaftigcurves
*NOTE* If you are looking for group play, please see the addendum at the bottom of this profile.
I've been actively exploring BDSM for three years. I'm a polyamorous hinge with three partners: a long term primary partner, a long-term dominant - typically they are the only men with whom I'm submissive - and a submissive toy. With most men, such as my toy, I am usually though not always dominant. While this makes me a switch from one perspective, realize I do not switch with the same person. If I am dominant to you, then I am always dominant. If I am submissive, I am always submissive.
I am not interested in a 24/7 relationship, micromanaging your life, or controlling your thoughts. I am interested in a caring, loving relationship with a man who seeks a friend and lover for time spent in both sexual and nonsexual pursuits.
I am slow to develop submissive relationships with dominant men. Trust is essential and that takes time to develop. I have well defined limits which I expect to have honored, but I do not attempt to top from the bottom and am enriched from immersing myself in your desires and following your directions. I enjoy pain but am not a pain slut. I enjoy service but am not solely a service sub.
When I am with my submissive I am in charge. I do not argue nor tolerate attempts to provoke argument. If you enjoy trying to top from the bottom and being a smart-ass masochist in an effort to provoke punishment then neither of us will be satisfied with the other and you should focus your search elsewhere. While we all need reassurance at times, submission is not a way to cover or cope with massive insecurities and you are not ready for a submissive relationship.
Men who appeal to me are intelligent, well-educated (formally or self-educated), open-minded, liberal, secure, sensual and giving. If you have these qualities and find pleasure in focusing on a Lady whom you serve in multiple areas, then I would be interested in talking to you.
I am not a cougar or a milf. I am a full-figured/heavy woman with huge breasts and a round ass and am a fairly good reproduction of Renoir's Psyche or the Willendorf Venus. If that does not appeal, please move on and best of luck to you.
If you want more information, feel free to contact me so we may explore the potential that may exist for a relationship between us. I participate in new relationships only with the knowledge and agreement of my existing lovers. If we decide to pursue a relationship, I will be happy to arrange for you to meet them or exchange information to verify this if it makes you more comfortable.
*Addendum* My toy is interested in being dominated by another woman while I supervise or me dominating both him and a female submissive. This would be a one-time or occasional scene involving no or little female-female interaction. My Sir is interested in an occasional scene in which he shares me with another bi-sexual man, either Dominant or submissive. If this is of interest, please contact me. |
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