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I'm a service oriented submissive with no outlet for that in my life currently, so I am here mostly to keep a connection to the BDSM community. It helps to know that there are people out there able to live out these kinds of desires. I do love simply talking with others online about kink or pretty much anything else. Would like to hear your story or views on Ds, or share mine if you wish.
I am not looking to jump into a relationship, partly because I am so closeted these days and partly because jumping into a relationship doesn't seem to work out too often.
Having said that, I am open to allowing my hunger for submission to overpower my common sense from time to time, especially if a chastity challenge or hypnosis is involved. Otherwise, not jumping into a relationship.
I am open to seeing what happens over time with a compatible person. Compatibility can be found with persons of any gender.
Yes, I am married, and no, she is not interested in BDSM. Yes, we have talked about it and made multiple attempts.
Please feel free to contact me through messages here, chat here, Yahoo chat (zadig023) or email (zadig023@yahoo.com).
Be well all and thank you for stopping by!
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Another "The problem with this site..." post.
I embrace all forms of BDSM and power exchange. Not that every form works for me personally, but there is a huge array of relationships and arrangements that can fit within the BDSM tent. The only real criteria for calling something a BDSM or power exchange activity is that both people agree that what they are doing is BDSM and both people benefit. So for some people, BDSM is when they get tied up for a few minutes as part of foreplay. For some it is about fantasizing of all the ostensibly horrible things that another will "force" them to do. For others it is about long term emotional commitment. For some it is only about sex, for others it is not sexual at all. So, THE PROBLEM WITH THIS SITE (there it is!) is that many people here think and act thoughtlessly and downright rudely by contacting people who clearly don't match their vision of BDSM and then crying "Fake!" when that person doesn't conform to their fantasies.
In the end, the problem with this site isn't the site at all, but the thoughtlessness of some of the people. Be thoughtful, people. Acknowledge other people's point of view, and accept that different is not necessarily wrong. |
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It has become very appealing to me lately to imagine being conditioned to be aroused by one thing almost exclusively. I have had long, extended fantasies about it in the past with female feet and legs as the focus. This time around it's cock. What would it be like to be given task after task, or experience after experience, each moving me a step closer to being conditioned (or brainwashed if you prefer the dramatic) to absolutely hunger for the touch of a man? I already desire to serve, but what about serving a masculine man and craving the pleasure of his cock? To be "turned" gay? The phrase is both highly arousing and absolutely insulting to the gay community. So instead of being "turned" gay, let's go with simply being highly conditioned to enjoy serving cock at the expense of other forms of pleasure. It's a sexy though, at least to me. |
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I have served primarily females in the past, either in role playing forms or in more real world ways. So what is is this new obsession with serving a man? Life is strange.
Maybe I shouldn't mention role playing as that is definitely not what most people are on here for! |
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| Age: 29 |
| Here,
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