Hi,
I'ts hard to place me into a certain catagory as I am Dominant in many areas of my life and happily so. In other areas I am submissive and am listed as a sub and sometimes switch here. It really depends on the woman really, some belong at my feet and others I belong at their feet. I do know I am NOT a slave, for I make the choice to submit. I also know I enjoy flogging, wax, paddles, edging and other sensual apsects of BDSM. my pain tolerance is probably 'medium' I am however willing to expand those limits.
My hard limits are Diapers, kids, animals, illegal activities, bathroom play of any kind, knife play and other extream forms of bdsm. Below is my feelings on serving and on submission. Please feel free to write and yes I have a photo I will share with those interested. I am seeking a true Mistress, one that inspires me to be the best I can be and to please & treat her the way she deserves to be pleased and treated.
Please read my entire profile before you write me. I do enjoy humiliation and some pain however but am still a submissive, NOT a slave. For others I can switch and be a Dom, a good one for I know, I understand, what goes thru a subs mind. As for relationship vs play partners? Well I am open to see were this leads us and am open and honest and will answer everyone.
“A mediocre Mistress tells, a good Mistress teaches, an excellent Mistress explains, but a True Mistress inspires……….” (unknown)
Submission
Submission is not a sign of weakness or inferiority. Some of the strongest, most successful people in our society are submissive
in their personal relationships.
Submission does not indicate lack of intelligence or motivation. Most submissives are very intelligent, creative and are highly
motivated people.
Submission is not a hidden desire for pain or humiliation. Some people may turn to the D/s or BDSM lifestyle in order to fulfill
their needs for these things but there are many more gentle, loving individuals who are quite happy not to receive either humiliation or pain.
Submission is not the same as passivity.
Submissives are not passive. They participate actively and are thinking individuals.
Submission is not something that can be demanded or forced. The definition of the word means it is a willing act.
A submissive submits because they have chosen to.
Submission is not a miserable state of existence. Most submissives are happy, well balanced people who are simply fulfilling their nature.
Submission is not slavery. All slaves are submissive but not all submissives are slaves.
A submissive has not given up their right
to choose but has given some of those choices to another to make for them. They have input into their relationship and maintain their identity.
Submission does not indicate sexual promiscuity. Submissives are not sex crazed nymphomaniacs who cannot control their drives.
Most are husbands or wives, mothers or fathers, friends, neighbors, workers, or family members who have a need to relinquish control of some aspects of their lives to someone they trust.
It isn't a sex thing...it's a condition of the heart.
Submissive (sub)
A person who surrenders control of herself to her dominant. The submissive, while putty in the hands of a dominant whom she trusts and respects, is likely to be independent and assertive in any other arena.
