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About yourukmaster
You can ignore everything at the end, it was my old profile text, and rather a lot of nonsense really (not untrue as such, just bland). I've left it for posterity, but you don't have to read it. Or do. I don't mind, whatever floats your boat. I also haven't read through it all yet to see if I should just delete it. Anyway, enough typing about nothing.
I'm now living in Essex, but travel a fair bit for work still (not as much as I used to). A bit disaffected with this site for a long while, but just here to chat, no particular goals.
Also, any bikers around Essex / South East (or anywhere) get in touch if you ever fancy having a ride out - not really kinky at all, just like minded people meeting up, been thinking that it'd be good to link up with other bikers into kink.
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31/07/13 Yet again, I am planning an edit...
A note on my username: It is not very imaginative, I know this. I created it rather a long time ago, and do not have the time or desire to create a new profile to change it. Suffice it to say that I am different person to the one that decided that as a username, not that I would know what to use now instead, though...
I will try to keep this short and sweet (as I am well aware that few actually read it), so the best way to get to know me is send me a message and we can get talking, although there are things in particular that I am looking for, I am more than happy to communicate with anyone. I will also mention one thing: "Time wasters need not apply", a futile attempt perhaps (as a time waster is likely to have scant regard for such a request) and I shall say no more here, just be up front with what you want from the start and no messing around.
A bit about me:
I am 23, tall, broad shouldered and well built. I would not be being arrogant by saying that I am fairly intelligent, fit and healthy (but not some gym-dwelling knuckle-head), I am a professional and I think that in a relationship intelligent conversation and intimacy is important as well as the sex (sounds like an obvious statement, but one might be surprised how many disagree- whether or not they do so openly). I have many vanilla interests, but will not go on to list them here- I think that somewhat removes the fun from getting to know someone. I live in York, but travel a fair bit for business etc. and spend a fair bit of time in the south east (Essex way) and London areas.
I am (obviously) dominant and am fairly experienced in BDSM, I have been in a number of such relationships to varying degrees, including 24/7. I have always considered myself assertive and fairly confident, so am always the dominant partner in a relationship (being openly 'BDSM' in nature or otherwise), that being said, I am always safe and sane, I am not a bully, and I always protect and look after my girlfriends/subs- I am always in charge, but do listen to and consider everything.
I will not list and describe everything 'kinky' I am into (there is the list to the left for an idea), the list, though, is endless as I am very open minded and enjoy trying new things and experimenting. I do also like more than 'run-of-the-mill' bondage/kink, such more n depth power play and head games, pushing the boundaries of D/s- although 'normal' BDSM is fun too. As mentioned earlier; I think that intimacy and emotional connection (other than sexual- although the line is blurred and I consider it all the same really) in a D/s relationship is important. So cuddles and kisses are in as well, and I love to have my sub wrapped up in my arms on the sofa, and aftercare after (obviously) a 'session' (horrible word) is important. Do not take that to mean that I am just a big softie, but many a profile on here dwells on 'how dominant' and sexual the writer is and I thought it necessary to show that I, at least, am not as two-dimensional as that. Of course, anyone can write anything on one of these things, so again, it is better to get in touch and get to know me that way.
What I am looking for:
Hard to say, as I have yet to find them. Submissive (or switch, maybe, but would have to be mainly sub- I am not sub), I think ultimately I would like to be in a long term, 24/7 (or close to) relationship eventually. I am not in any particular rush though, and happy to meet new people and play until I find exactly what I want, the person is more important to me that the 'type' of relationship, so it is difficult to specify exactly. As far as age goes I am open, as a guide around my age (maybe +/- 5 years?), but how two people get on is much more important than their ages. As far as looks go: I would be a liar if I said they were unimportant, obviously sexual attraction is needed in a relationship, but I do not really have a 'type' and whether we can talk, get on and fit into a relationship we both want is just as important as looks. Basically I want a submissive girl who is not afraid of intelligent conversation sometimes, enjoys sex and interesting play/kink, wants to be a sub in a D/s relationship who I can care for, dominate, look after and perhaps train.
Well, that was not as short (or sweet)? as I planned, but perhaps it gave you (the few, if any, who are still reading) an idea. These sorts of sections are hard to fill anywhere and give a good impression of ones self, being no literary genius I think (again) the best way is to chat with someone to get to know them.
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Ok, I sounded like a whiny little bitch on my last journal entry, and I've talk to a couple of people on here, remembering that there are genuine people on here, and have seen the error of my ways.
It may only be my second journal entry, and I'm not off to a very good start, but from henceforth I try not to bitch or whine and carry my online persona with some dignity.
I'll keep the last journal up anyway, because otherwise I'd only have one, and this one would seem out of context.
I think it might be a good time to think about revising my profile a bit, but that can take rather alot of effort and difficult to make the change worthwhile and bring something more to it.
Watch this space.
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I find myself getting increasingly annoyed/bored with this site, I am sure that I could go on about timewaster, fakes and scammers until I'm blue in the face, but the small percentage of genuine users here all have to content with that, so I know I'm not on my own.
What is getting me down is my own bad luck (or perhaps it's not luck) I have an active interest in bdsm, I enjoy it and am experienced, but want to experience more, but obviously it's not so easy to just go out and find others into it, which is why, in theory this site is a good idea.
Anyway, I shall cut to the chase, so to speak; why is it that I never get a reply to my messages? I understand that people may be busy, not interested or the fact that people don't like copy and pasted messages or one-liners (I don't either) but I always try to be careful, I only send messages to people I'm interested in talking to, who seem compatible, I try to sound reasonable, not drone on about bdsm too much (I am a more or less well rounded person too) and ty to sound genuine, yet I never seem to get a reply from someone who is genuine, a nice normal person (or maybe not normal, but atleast real). Now I understand that maybe I'm doing something wrong, but if so, what is everyone else putting? What sort of elegant, insightful prose is expected of me? If my messages are so inferior, I would certainlylike to read the ones from people who get replies, and experience their obvious linguistic genious. I despair! And if indeed all these people arn,t interested, I clearly took the time to put together a well thought out message, why not in the least reply, just a 'fuck of' would suffice, it's better than a read message met with silence.
Why then? Perhaps all these people just arn't intrested, and don't have the time to reply, or they are all fakes, or a mixture of both. But everyone I message? Perhaps it is my bad fortune.
Anyway, I have rambled enough, and I reckon that of the few people who look at my profile, even less will read this, and those will just be put off by me moaning, and think that I'm just a whiny immature child. Oh well. Advise is cautiousily welcome, provided it's useful, messages are always welcome. And please reply to peoplewho put effort into messages, I know you're busy, but even a one line 'go away' takes no time at all, and is better than nothing. |
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