I think you can label yourself as a sub/slave/Dom ect.....and know that is the role you want. But until you meet that partner that makes you thrive in that role do you really become that. I could not give myself to you if I didn't feel like you would fill my life completely. Doesn't make me a fake or a fraud not that I have been labeled that at all. I found my Master and never in my life have I felt more complete than I do now. Don't get me wrong i know there are some who think this is the lifestyle they want until they meet a Dom who want more then they want to give. Does this make them a fake or a relationship thats not a good match? In the "Vanilla" world it would just not be a good match here people are labeled a fake or not a true sub or even Dom. Here is my point when you find that one it works everything falls into place. I wish everyone the love and happiness I have found. I will forever give him my body/soul/and mind completely. |