A do-over on the profile...... I've been on and off this site for a while, never finding what I'm looking for. Always leaving in disgust. I lurk about and read the things people write. The abusive misogynists that call themselves "Dominant", but really only hide behind the term to make themselves feel a little better about their insecurities, the little boys wanting attentions from anyone. The same men having both Dom and Sub profiles. The men who want a sub or slave........ but that really means free domestic help....... These are the same people who get verbally abusive when you call them out on their bullshit.
I don't want to start out with someone who is going to be confrontational. I rather dislike it, but I will stand up for myself and demand the respect that I deserve as another human being. Now a lot of so -called "Dominants" are going to tell me that's not how a "real" submissive behaves. That's their opinion. I'm pretty sure I've got an opinion about them too. Anyone who has to shout demands and insults at people to coerce them into a certain behavior is a psych case. Intimidation doesn't work with me at all. We're not all cut from the same cloth, although to the right man, I would submit completely.Key word being "right". I have standards. They're high.
It's funny, so many of the journals on the women on this site read exactly like this one does......so many of the journals from the Dominants either read like poor text from "50 Shades"(ick) or a ranting,out of control lunatic.
Oh well. I don't suspect I'll find the right one here. Anywhere. But, what really can one do about it. If it's meant to be....right time/ right place/ stars in the right alignment lol. |