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Trust, honor, respect and admiration ARE ALL EARNED, that is not to say I don't come forth offering these things from go, everyone has an equal chance. I don't randomly submit in my play. However, that being said, I will randomly dominate men and women just like an ally cat toying with its dinner.
I dont do online. Good luck in your search, RT only.
There is nothing gained in life without action.
... So I have made action
 While in my home you will concern yourself with only three things, my wants, needs and desires. Got it? ONLY Service oriented individuals who are able to be with me (in southern CA) at least 2 hours 2 times a week will be considered.
I am a lifestyle straight leather oriented girl, who adores big black boots on a man who appreciates them as much as I do.
Be real, be sincere, be kind to others. Pet's can sense these things.
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1. Have her/him wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the
bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her/his submission.
2.
When she/he has broken a rule, talk to her/him as you punish....and
make her/him speak in detail about why and what she/he did was wrong.
3. Make her/him take her/his shoes off every day as soon as she/he enters your house.
4.
A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time
to select the right one, and have her/him wear it as often as possible.
5. Have her/him call you each day at a specified time, no excuses.
6. Give her/him anklets and tell her/him she/he must wear one of them every day, no excuses.
7.
Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her/him kneel
before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.
8. Choose her/him hairstyle.
9. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her/him display herself/himself whenever you come into the room.
10.
When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she/him has
an alternative title for you besides Master/Mistress.....such as "my
Love" etc.
11. Use her/him sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it....interrupting whatever she/he was doing.
12. Chose a food that she/he dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.
13. Have her/him crawl to bed each night.
14. Bring her/him a stuffed animal each time you go out of town.
17. After punishment, have her/him kiss your boots and thank you for loving her enough to correct her/him.
18. Have her/him bring a warm towel and wash and massage your feet each day after work.
22. Respect, but push her/his limits.
23.
Ask her/him each night what she/he did that day that you would not have
approved of. This gets her/him in the habit of being completely honest,
and also makes her/him conscious of the things she/he could do better
each day.
24. Teach her/him exactly how you want her/him to kneel, and demand perfection.
25. Reward her/him by allowing her/him to please you sexually.
26. Supervise her/his workout routine.
27.
Each night she/he is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to
sleep with her/his Master/Mistress, and each night she/he does, she/he
is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her/his Master/Mistress
for the privilege.
28. Have her/him polish your boots weekly, on her/him knees at your feet.
29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.
32.
Instruct her/him that she/he may never get herself/himself something to
eat or drink in your presence without first asking you if you want
something.
33. Some evenings, keep her/him on a leash and take
her/him with you no matter what you do....even if you do not speak to
her/him or include her/him in your activities.
34. When appropriate, she/he is to speak only when spoken to.
35. Reward her/him by giving her/him delicious pleasure.
36. On occasion, share her/him.
37. When it suits you, instruct her/him not to make eye contact with you without your command.
39. Conduct random inspections of her/his body to make sure she keeps herself/himself to your specifications.
40. Make her/him wear a butt-plug under her/his clothes whenever she/he goes out alone.
41.
For transgressions: have her/him write your name on the bottom of
her/him foot and tell her/him to remember she/he is walking on you with
each step.
(This is harder to do that you might think....)
42. Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.....
43. Give her/him reading assignments.
45. Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed
46. Make it her/him responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.
47. Reward her/him by letting her/him name her favorite scene, toys, etc.
48. Call her/him your slut, your pet, etc.
49. Have her/him make a list of the 10 things that make her/him the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.
50.
Work with her/him, having her/him do the things on the list (if
possible), so that she/he conquers those fears and hesitations.
51.
Sometimes, pamper her/him.....wash his body and hair, having her/him
remain perfectly still as you turn her/him and move her/him about.
52. Hand feed her/him like a small child on occasion.
55. Praise her/his dedication when she/he has pleased you well.
56. Instruct her/him that she/he is never to touch your body without permission.
57.
Have her/him write a meditation about her submission, devotion and
trust in you....to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.
58. Some days allow her/him no clothing whatsoever (when practical).
59. For transgressions: deny her/him play.
60. In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm.....give her/him sex, but she/he can't cum.
64. Have her/him wear a toe ring.
65. Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.
66. Have her/him wear nipple clamps under her/his clothing out to dinner.
67. On your birthday, let her/him receive your spankings.
68. Spend time training her/him how to move gracefully to please you.
69. For transgressions: stand her/him in the corner like a 3 year old.
70. Always flog her/him after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.
71. Speak about her/him as if she were not present.
73. Defend her/his honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.
74. Pet her/him often.
78. Teach her/him things....expand her/his knowledge.....in a patient Fatherly/Motherly way.
79. When you are away, call her/him and have her/him masturbate for you.
80.
If you choose to play with others, make sure your slave knows who is
first in your heart.....and that some things are just for her/him.
81. Remember her/his birthday.
82. Lead her/him with a loving fist in her/him hair.
83. Wake her/him each morning with an assigned task for the day.....and make sure it is done by day's end.
84. Teach her/him patience.
85. Videotape your sessions and watch them together.
87. Hand feed her/him chocolate.
89.
Keep a list of her/him transgressions in a little book....let her/him
slip for a while...thinking you are not noticing.....then one day,
bring out the book and have a day of atonement.
90. Tickle her/him just because you can.
91.
Have her/him be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her/him
extreme pleasure.....when she/him moves or makes a sound punish her/him
then return to the pleasure.
92. Keep her locked in her/him
collar when you are home. You place it on her/him.....having her/him
kneel. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.
93. When possible, have her/him cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but an apron and collar.
95. Remember to kiss and caress away her/his tears.
96. Don't be afraid to bring her/him to tears, for they are yours as well.
98.
Caress her/him, whisper into her ear that you love her/him, nibble on
her/his belly, lick her/his thighs and make love to her/him until she
cries.
99. Have her/him fall asleep with your cock in her/him mouth and tell her/him you expect it to be there when you awake.
100. Occasionally, fulfill her/his fantasy.
101. Master's/Mistress' word is the last word.
Addendum
102. Make sure that she/he is safe at all times....when with you and when you are apart (to the best of your ability).
103. Be consistent.
104. Take the time to talk to her/him.....learn her/his fears, her/his dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.
106. Specify exactly how she/he will address you in private and in public.
107.
If you are willing to correct her/him each time she/him forgets until
it is a habit, have her/him refer to herself as "this slave" or "this
girl/boy" etc.
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Dear little goth boy dancing upon my box, i want to do bad bad things to you.
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OH OH one last thing, just because I moonlight as a pro domme for select individuals, does not mean that your wallet earns you a spot at my feet.
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Missed domcon los angeles this year, really irritated about that fact. But there is always atlanta! Wheeeeeee. Sounds like all my friends had an OK time. Hugs kiddies, off to the poly munch in Laurel tonight.
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I would like to address liars. Specifically one from MD who seem to be pathological. A certain Sire Dom (who is looking) 4u. I wont name anyone specific (just so I can protect the innocent of course) ... so for the purpose of this journal we'll call this irish bastard "Jim". He recently began making promises and videos. This man is nothing more than a pretentious liar who preys on women until his web of lies catches up. He has NO "house". He has no ability to provide a submissive with anything but heartache. I a currently housing an abandoned slave we will call Katrina. This bastard lied to her and tossed her to the side. Frankly, I am glad I found her before she gave herself completely to this idiot.
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| CYBERSPACE! Isn't it great?? A Dom can tell his little sub what to do over the internet or maybe if they are really into in, by phone and webcam, at the same time!
The best thing about cybersex is that you can have your sub spank
herself, pull her own hair, cover herself with candlewax (and clean it
up) and whatever else you want her to do, all while you fix a
sandwich, get something to drink and see what's on tv from the comfort
of your own home. WOW |
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mmmmm I love love love driving through DC with my headlights on ... sissy boy ... What a glorious Saturday. Can't wait to play next weekend.
Still looking for a little girl.
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Seeking Female bottom...switch, sub, slave, masochist...debasement, objectification, bondage....
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why do guys get off on telling intimate secrets to women they dont even know. Example: including details about sniffing a female relatives underwear then putting them on and cumming in them.
Do they REALLY THINK this is the shit I want to read BEFORE my first cup of coffee????
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If you think that you are the reason I hate this place your mistaken...although I really do detest flakes...and I would like to take a moment to thank you for added frustration at the end of an already shitty day. again you probably think this blog is about you? Dont you? your so vain....
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People have asked me why I have changed the status on my profile here. Simple. I have changed. I have friends here who know this screen name, and though the name no longer fits, it is a good explanation of something I once was. Its a great way to start a conversation and learn something about someone. :)
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Service oriented...someone willing to serve, in any capacity I may deem necessary. cooking, cleaning, worship, bathing, driving, shopping...service, making my life a little more pleasant by serving.
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Yay for the first snow of the year. |
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I will be attending the Pantheon of Leather in Chicago and will be in the City from July 15 until July 22. Information on the Pantheon can be found at www.westcoastolympus.com |
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Switches Un-Leashed...So your a switch... Now what? A class for new players, designed to help understand the mindset of the switch. The first in a three part course designed to help dispell the myths of greed and indecission, help with switch etiquette and aide new switches on finding identity in various settings and surroundings.
The course will be on July 12, 2008 at 7pm in San Diego CA at Dungeon Servitus. $25 pre registered and $30 at the door. Class size is limited to 40 people. Contact me at missvonn@aol.com for more information. |
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I am amazed at the end of the day, 16 years later...at the amount that I still learn every time I go out to a class ... I know that I don't know everything, but the fact that someone can still bring out feelings of newness and wonder is the reason I am here at all. Thank you for reminding this kitten that it's ok to be me. |
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WTF is it with men looking for "NO LIMIT slaves" and "complete whores"? Do men truly want a girl who has no limits, what has she done prior to being with you? I mean really, come on now. If I had no limits and let ALL my fantasies run wild in the streets of lost angels i would most likely have zero self esteme and be used up...sometimes fantasies are just that hot as they are, they are fantasies for a reason. Is there anyone real on this site? |
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Leather and Cigars and boots and cumming and electricity and needles and biting all that was missing was the bottom of a boot on my cheek, perhaps some other time. For now I relish the beautiful marks and bruises left upon my skin and muscle as I move about a remembrance of my weekend. I wonder if there is a straight daddy like that in so cal? HEH. I think they broke the mold. fun while it lasts though. |
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I have a song in my heart and a lock upon the palm of my trembling hand, which sadly is at the end of an outstretched arm, wanton and patiently waiting for one whom I am yet to know.
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Ok so I am back on collar me. After sould searching for three or four years, could it really have been that long. Two people...Surprisingly one of them being my last submissive male...have allowed me to realize that after discovering "masters are simply men" I went in search of myself.
Plainly put, when I see myself happy it is not stomping on someone putting them down, it is looking up, lifting them, supporting them in service. |
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one tries to remember Masters are just men, with all the intricacies and fallacies that come with them. |
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| Age: 24 |
| London,
United Kingdom |
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