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| I've been exploring this lifestyle for 2 years now and it has taken that long to figure out what I am looking for. In the beginning every aspect of it was appealing, well, not every aspect, there are things I have never been into and never will be such as children, animals, scat, things of that nature. I also learned you don't become someone's sub/slave 5 minutes after speaking for the first time online, as fun as those scenarios are it's just not realistic. The D/s lifestyle is one that embodies trust, it has to when you are putting yourself into someone else's hands and trust is something that takes time to build. I also have found that I am not just capable of submitting to every woman I meet because not only does submitting to a woman require all the facets and chemistry that is present in a vanilla relationship but it also takes a true dominant woman to compel me to submit in r/t. That doesn't mean I am a brat submissive that you have to force to submit, if the chemistry is there and you are naturally dominant then I'll willingly give you every once of my submission. And by a true domina I mean someone that loves to be in control, be in charge, that it's part of their genetic make up and that they are not just a woman who has been scorned in the past, or is clingy and calls herself a Domme in hopes of being able keep her sub by her side constantly and cut him off from every one else, ect.
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