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Well, it happened so slowly that I can see each staging point and yet I'm still in awe of how it came about. Let's just say that I am now locked up by someone who has been very precious to me in the past and is even more precious to me now and hopefully for a long long time to come.
43 year old sub looking for strict chastity control from a Domme who knows how to tease and cause frustration.
I have my own CB6000 and would love to have the keys held by someone.
The right Domme will get deep inside my mind and look forward to the point where I break down in tears of frustration. With such a Domme, perhaps there is a chance of something more lasting ... I can only hope.
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Oh dear, this place really does make me laugh.
Some time back in a different profile I constructed an email to a domme, nothing too fancy, perhaps 3 or 4 paragraphs to show that her profile had been read properly and to see if there were some conversation openers there. I remember from her profile that she was obviously quite angry and probably more than a bit insecure about her appearance from messages by some of the nastier people on here. I thought she looked fine, indeed there was something very intense in her eyes.
Typically, if one makes a genuine effort to say something the brush off response is at least polite and one moves on. Her response was a new one, I got told off in a very snippy reply for sending her an essay.
So what's so funny about this. I've just seen her profile again and it has been modified to be primarily a complaint about one liners, unimaginative cut and paste replies and lack of effort in emails.
At times I get some really good laughs from here.
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Look. If you're going to send spam email please show some signs of intelligence.
Emails beginning with "Dear Worshipful Master" really aren't going to cut much ice here.
There's some fairly good clues. a) My profile says "sub" b) My name appears on your screen in blue. Put some proper effort in and at least make it look like I've garnered some interest. |
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Interesting question - It's always been around but I see it more and more. Dommes who say they are looking for worthless worms, or pay pigs or a number of very derisory terms that make no disguise of the fact that they simply want an object to abuse in some way.
It makes me wonder what these people really think D/s is ? Where is the mental connection ? Where is the mutual respect ? Above all, where is the trust and the journey of exploring and growing a relationship.
Obviously some subs do respond to this, but why do they believe that they are worthless ? Why do they have no self-respect ? And if they have no self-respect, how can they expect anyone else to have respect for them ?
All the dommes I know who live the life also find this totally perplexing. They respect someone prepared to embark on the emotional journey and to do that properly both parties need to be equally strong. If you're going on a difficult journey you want your companion to be strong, exciting, intellectually compatible and a friend.
If anyone who is either looking for worthless worms, or someone who considers himself one would like to respond, i'd be interested to hear your point of view.
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I've just seen another great example, a domme proudly boasting that she is "brutal" and "get's carried away".
How on earth can she be proud of that ? What sort of message does it send out ? I'm sure it appeals to the 'no limits' fantasists but would anyone else really trust her to keep control or notice when she had gone too far.
A real D/s relationship is not all one way, it requires incredible mutual trust and respect. Any dom/me that doesn't understand this or have respect for a sub is never going to experience the genuine spiritual awkening that a full on D/s relationship can provide. |
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Had a wonderful chastity mistress for quite a long time but that's been over now for quite a while. So back looking to suffer again. Ideal domme is someone much younger who wants to take control of the orgasms of a much older man simply for her own amusement. The idea of a capricious girl half my age being in total control of when I get pleasure is intoxicating. She's too young to actually care about me, all she wants is control and to have a laugh at my expense. Certainly she has no intention of wanting or allowing a relationship just the fun of teasing an older man when she knows he can't do anything about it and letting/making him orgasm only when and how she wants - that's if she wants it at all because she enjoys his frustration so much.
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What is it about places like CM that brings out the idiot in people - of both sexes.
I know it's common for subs to say they have "no limits" and then when put to the test they are found to be newbie fantasists that wimp out at the first real command.
But what gets me are the increasing number of ads from dommes that I see that say they have or want "no limits". This makes me seriously wonder if they have any experience at all and I certainly wouldn't trust them to play safely or even have heard of SSC. Everyone has a limit, somewhere. Some phobia or act that is too much for them. In any D/S relationship both parties need to recognise this, talk about it and cater for it.
Also, it's easy for a dom/me to say they have no limits, they are not the ones who may get seriously hurt physically and mentally.
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| Age: 20 |
| Boston,
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