Yourboyz

Hello Women,

I noticed that there are only 70 Dominant women active this month in Ontario on Collarme.com.

That really is not as big a pool of people as I was hoping to find. Some people will feel that they are too old, others will think they are too young, some won't find me attractive, some I won't find attractive. Others will not share the same interests and thinking on BDSM, and others will not be sexually compatable.

I don't think that leaves too many women left where things mesh well enough to get real.

I was hoping to find someone local. After all Ontario is larger than most the countries listed in the country drop down menu both in size and population. Of course there are other places in Ontario too. And travelling for adventure can be rationalized, but for dating and relationships it's just not practical.

Of course there a ooodles of American women who I'd love to connect with, but that seems even less practical.

All I know is that I am still in a quandry. I want to be dominated, I want to be controlled, but in certain ways. They are not demands. If you feel that way, then we don't have understanding, and likely lack compatibility.

I suppose perhaps my submission isn't unconditional. I suppose there are certain conditions that I want to impose. But what I hope to find is a woman who thinks the same way, or understands that it's cool to state what I want and how I want it.

Give you an example. For me this is sexual.
I want my sexuality controlled. I am not interested in denial. I want to dominated into sexual compliance and over stimulated. Tormented by stimulation. Sexual compliance is to your needs, desires, fetish and kink.

Some women feel that is an attempt at controlling their sexuality. But since my essence is a sexual being, if you control my sexuality and feed it by feeding your sexuality, you control me.

The second thing is that I want to know that I will be spanked for real for valid reasons.
Valid reasons would be for rude, aggressive or deceptive behavior. For causing emotional pain or distress, or when it is in the best interests of the relationship, or when I need to be convinced or motivated to action.

Some women feel this is telling them when and how to discipline me. But I am not. I don't say if I do this then you have to spank me. I don't tellyou the duration, intensity or severity. That would be up to you.. It's just I have to know corporal discipline will always be metted out for good reasons, and so I can govern myself and my actions to negate the requirement for its execution upon my ass.


So those are a couple of examples of what I mean. I guess what I want is a girlfriend who just happenes to be a domanitrix. I am just used to a female head of the household and would like to be with a woman who will be the head of the relationship.

I want some parts to be 24/7 and other parts just in the bedroom, which means secured privacy.

So if you are a woman that understands what I am looking for and would be interested in persuing something to see where it leads, and are from Toronto, great. if you are from Ontario, lets see what happens, and if you are from America lets talk, because fate has strange ways of creating possibilities, and for that matter, I guess if you think you are what I seek, then just say hello even if you are on the otherside of the world. Just because the Internet gives us that opporunity and it never existed before, so lets see.

Your boyz