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Female Submissive, 19, Lancaster, Pennsylvania
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Switch Couple, 22, Montreal, Massachusetts
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About youngsubtpenguin
Married 32/m - I've been involved in the lifestyle for a long time, mostly as a submissive. It is definitely my natural position. I haven't had anyone to serve for a while now though, and I miss it! :(.. I crave it. I like the gross stuff, bodily fluids, food etc, but I'm really open to quite a bit!
Online or text is easier, but the ability to do r/t is appealing too. Im an open book. Whatever you want to know, just ask! |
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So I understand that tribute is part of the lifestyle, and financial domination is a big fetish for submissives and Domme's alike. I just don't understand why EVERY single domme on here is a financial Domme.
I get it. I get the power exchange that comes from that. I get why it's so addicting. I've spent THOUSANDS in this lifestyle. Here's the thing. As much as Domme's complain about fake submissives, I feel like there's a lot of fake Dommes out there. You may say you aren't in it for the money... you don't need it.... but you want it don't you? You wouldn't consider a slave without it, so you do need it.
It may be a great way to establish power, but for some I think it's the only way you know how. Holding someone else's money is the only way you can establish power. Sure you may give in and fulfill their fetishes at that point, but then what are you really? Someone is paying you in order to fill out their sexual desires? I think there's another word for that.
This is about what you want. What you really want. Not just power. What makes you laugh, what makes you smile, what have you always wanted to try? What makes you feel better when you're frustrated... when you've had one of those days from hell? It's not money. It's loyalty... respect.... power. That comes without the money.
The next time you say there's no good slaves on here.... maybe they just can't afford you? That doesn't mean they aren't very good at what they do. I've been subbing for 15 years. I provide a service. I am here to help you... maybe you should be paying me!
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