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youngstownsubm

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I am not currently looking for Anyone. Friends are always welcome.

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Educated, intelligent male submissive looking for friendship that might eventually turn into a D/s relationship.

Most people who know me well describe me as fun-loving, laid-back and easy-going, a "big teddy bear," intelligent, and a good person to have a conversation with about just about anything.

Of course, most people who've just met me describe me as a bit awkward. I guess I can be a little shy when you first meet me, but once I get to know you I'll talk your head off.

I love music. Some of my favorite bands/artists include Pink Floyd, The Beatles, King Crimson, The Mars Volta, John Coltrane, and Miles Davis.

I recently graduated college with a degree in Computer Science, and currently work as a freelance consultant. I make enough money to travel to other parts of Ohio and PA semi-regularly.

I've been active in the lifestyle since 2006. I'm new but have plenty of experience under my belt. My experience includes floggings/spankings/etc., foot worship, some CBT, and a little electric play. I was also collared for about a year to a great Goddess; the relationship ended on a mutually agreeable basis and I can provide Her as a reference if needed.

Women: I'm looking for a Domme who will also be a friend; when I submit to a Woman, I want to know that there's something to this relationship other than BDSM. This is not to say we should be equals in the relationship; far from it, I would live and breathe just for You. But I do want to be able to talk to You in a vanilla situation. I'm not just looking for play but a companion, someone with whom I can enjoy a good conversation and to whom I can entrust my safety during a long, intense BDSM scene.

Men: I only recently discovered I was bi so I'm still very new to submission to men. I would love to be trained by a Master or Dom who's strong, confident, and patient, with a good sense of humor, and who can be like a mentor to me. I don't feel as naturally submissive towards men as I do towards women, so I would need a strict hand to guide me. Please, however, respect that I am very new to this side of myself, and I may not be 100% comfortable in my skin at first.

Anyway, I love to meet other people interested in the lifestyle. I hang out in #subs_for_dommes and sometimes #unowned_subbie_room. Shoot me an email or find me on IRC if you're unpretentious and just looking for a real person among the crowd.

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10/8/2008 1:56:11 PM
I am not currently looking for Anyone.

9/6/2008 2:25:31 AM
So I PM a domme on this site because she lives about 40 minutes from me... I start talking to her, we talk about our interests, and everything, and I tell her I like to crossdress... she asks me to show her, so I get dressed up and made up and show her on cam.

I figure what the hell, there's no harminthat. Well pretty soon, and I've never done anything like this before on the Internet, she's teasing me and humiliating me and I'm actually really into it... anyway, then she asks me if I want to see her, and I say "yes miss, very much," and she then tells me that I have to sign up for her premium site.

Of course that immediately kills the mood and I sign off. So now I'm all made up and dressed up for no good reason and I feel like an idiot. I've never cammed with a random girl I didn't know before, and well, now I know why.

If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is... please tell me SOMEONE out here is real. *bangs head*

8/25/2008 11:32:39 PM
Let's be truthful. I'm a human being, you're a human being. I'm a sub, yes, but I still expect to be treated with a little basic human decency.

When I send a heartfelt messages expressing interest in a Domme, then, why do so few respond? How hard is it to say "Thanks, but I'm not interested because ______"? If I had said "hi mistress i want you to spank me" and that was it, I could understand ignoring it. But I actually put thought into my messages, and anyone should be able to tell that.

If someone makes the most basic effort to get to know you, you can at least make the most basic effort to say "OK" or "No thanks." I understand Dommes get a lot of messages. But it doesn't take too much longer to respond than to read.

Just a plea for a little common courtesy, from your friendly neighborhood Youngstown sub.

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sheree
 
 Age: 25
 Pagadian city, Philippines