youngPrometheus

Partly for my own edification, and partly for the sake of those folks who have enough free time to wonder about what I might desire in terms of relationships, I’ve put together this writing.

Obviously, real life relationships don’t confine themselves to little boxes, and if I held out that every single demand and characteristic in the following deions be followed to the precise letter I’d likely die alone and bitter. Rather, what follows should provide a generalize outline, and archetype if you will, for the type of relationships I seek. It’s a living document, and shall evolve as I do.

It should be noted that “play-partner” doesn’t appear anywhere on the following list. This isn’t because I don’t love play partners and enjoy having more of them, it’s merely that I see them as any number of things, and have no overarching idea of what I’m looking for in them.

Thus, without further adieu, the relationships I seek:

Owner(s)

Of all the relationships and forms of intimacy I seek in my life as a kinky individual (which is rapidly becoming my only life), this is the most significant.

To be blunt, I am seeking someone who desires to engage in a D/s or M/s style dynamic, and is interested in having ownership and control over my life to a high degree. This would be an intense, long term, and highly committed relationship, and anybody interested should comfortable with the idea of cohabiting at some point in the future. Such a relationship would likely require a degree of “training”, in ordered to allow for me to gain a thorough understanding of my owners wants/needs/habits and vice versa. For all intents and purposes, this relationship would constitute my “primary”, into which I would be devoting the larger part of my energy and mindfulness, and the person I seek would ideally be interested in doing the same.

Naturally, this is not the kind of relationship that is entered into lightly. For my part, I’d need to feel that good chemistry existed on a social level and on a sexual/erotic level, and that good communication, interest, and energy existed between us. Furthermore, this person must be comfortable with taking the initiative, and must be able to clearly express what they do and do not want. Ideally, this person would be between 2-15 years older than myself, and fairly stable in their life. I’d be open to the possibility of co-owners, but the individuals in question would need to have a fairly solid relationship and communication system already in place. Gender in this situation is far less important than personal connection.

Girlfriend/Co-Sub

The idea of being part of a sub/sub couple has appealed to me for some time. Being able to have a close and intimate partnership (on both a physical and emotional level) with another sub/slave/bottom/switch is extremely attractive. This person would ideally identify as female (I relate better to women than men), would be relatively close to me in age, and would have a submissive nature and inclinations similar to my own. Naturally, they probably shouldn’t expect me to top them, and I’d expect nothing of the sort in return, but they should probably find the idea of co-subbing attractive.