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Did you ever instantly know you were going to like and trust someone for a long, long time?

Maybe you only knew them for a short while but it seemed that you had known them your whole life, as if there were a timeless connection between you.

With me... in my experience, it's the kind of thing that can't be forced and no essay or words can create it.

It has instead to be indulged inside your own imagination...dwelled on, contemplated, experienced, deep, deep inside you.

I do not know if you are the kind of person that can imagine enjoying that that kind connection, with someone wonderful who deeply moves you.

But if you could envision the possibility and feel it opening now before you, drawing you irresistibly forward, how powerfully could you feel that urge to read on and learn more?

If these words have moved you...

Then perhaps you are the special, imaginative, kinky, fun-loving woman for me and perhaps we are already on the way to being able to meet and feel a special connection; a connection based not just on getting what you want, but moving beyond what you want into what could deeply fulfill you.

Me... I am open to that special, adventurous, athletic, in-shape woman who can show me she has a sense of purpose to her life and a sense of humor and play to her soul.

A woman, not a girl,

Do You Remember??

Do you remember when you were a little child and you went to bed expecting tomorrow to be a rainy stormy day?

But you woke up the next morning and to your delight and surprise, you looked out to see a brightly shining sun, and not a cloud in the sky? And you realized, "Hey...this day is MINE to make happen?"

Imagine sharing those feelings every day with someone who truly understands, along with the passions only adults can create and share.

More About Me...

I'm 6 ft, athletic/slender, blonde hair, blue eyes and I am very pre-occupied with self improvement, nutrition, psychology and martial arts.

While I love travel I believe the greatest adventure is to explore one's passions.

I define true passion as not just lust in the moment...it's not even when you are touched so deeply that you find you give all that you have.

It's when you are touched so deeply you find things coming forth from you that you never even knew or imagined could be there.

Can you feel that.....would be an amazing thing to experience with someone?

ME: I have my dreams and a goal that I’m passionate about reaching. I must be with someone adventurous who LOVES to learn new things and is longing for an amazing new direction.

Someone who can decide on her own what SHE uniquely finds desirable, magnetizing and attractive based on her own deep feelings and needs.

Not because society would approve. Not because her friends would validate it. Not even because it is what she is used to or expecting or based on seeing her "type" or what is "typical", because maybe what is typical hasn't really made you very happy in the past.

But because she is ready... truly ready... for something beyond what she really even thought could be possible. Because maybe feeling that amazing opening is the link between the girl inside the woman, and the woman inside the girl.

What I Like...

I'm strongly into touching, and intense kissing (electricity)... that first, soft brush of the lips so soft you're not even sure you're kissing yet, and it's as if all the passion..all the fire that will be experienced in the relationship is enfolded in that one, first, soft, special kiss, just waiting to be explored and made real. BDSM has the potential to make a simple kiss one of the most thrilling experiences of your life.

It's that moment where time stands still and yet in that one moment, there is an eternity of experience to be explored. It makes your knees weak and your heart soar and every part of you comes...alive...awakened...ready for whatever will come next.

So if perhaps you are this woman, 21-39, with a touch of poetry in her soul (and a bit of a naughty mind), then maybe you can feel surprised at how much you'd like to meet and learn more.

Please understand that looks are not enough; I truly seek a person with a good, strong philosophy of life, a high-self esteem, a sense of fun and adventure, a love of life and learning and a great imagination (so very important!).

Please also have a good sense of humor and play, and a love of all things sensual (if your skill with your lips matches your luck with your looks then maybe we already have something amazing in common! Also expect to be tied from time to time, shibari is a beautiful skill, and to be tie and to be tied is one of the most beautiful expressions of trust in a relationship.

Sometimes in life, we get hurt and let our disappointments or past experiences block us from holding out hope...hope that real love with real people can be possible.

But behind all that...behind all the cynicism and hurt...the let-downs and the "not quites" is the part and the person who believes.