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I need a new place to live. I have until early December (2018) to move and perhaps longer. I hope that is enough time for evaluation to become a live-in. Another option is to figure out if we would make good roommates and explore from there.

I would imagine live-ins with that quick an evaluation are almost always subs. (Maybe almost all live-ins are subs.) My low-to-middling experience has been as a top (more so than a Dom), but Ive become very curious about the sub side. Curious enough to explore it intensively and with a deadline to move.

As to how I got here both my bottom and I were beginners we both had trouble with communication and setting expectations. I ran up against soft limits, and I think she would have been happier if I got her past them. However, we both got stuck at that point, so I spent a lot of time thinking about the subs point of view. I can see in theory how getting past limits and giving Mistress what she desires could be very fulfilling. In fact, I was surpised to find that I could see myself approaching 247 sub status. In this case, (the hypothetical) you are the Lady of the manor, and I am applying for serf or slave.

Ive read portions of Ingrid Bellemares book. Looking at her questionaire from the slaves point of view (in theory), I would border on a candidate for non-consensual slavery. I wouldnt go that far, but the point is that I would do my best to get close if thats what you wanted. As I hinted, I could see the fulfillment of getting closer and closer.

In the short term, its probably sub or bust for me. If I wind up with a standard roommate, though, I dont want to limit my options. I could be either 100 Dom or 100 sub for the right woman.

In my interest list, the only things I need when Im top is bondage useful to support a particular of whipping. Everything else is my sub curiosity. I keep debating myself whether to be specific, and I keep deciding that I dont want to reveal what Edward Cullen called his metaphorical personal brand of heroin. It takes me a few exchanges to open up like that.

As for being a Dom versus a top, I believe I could be a Dom, although the vision is somewhat fuzzier than when I see myself as a sub. Id need some discussion to understand your vision and thus come up with mine. Everyone has differnt wants in a Dom or sub.

I can also see switching with the same woman.

Im in no hurry for your picture, and I dont plan to post one. Im more interested in how you write as a first filter. I type very fast on a real, old-fashioned keyboard. If you dont own a laptop or desktop, were unlikely to get communication off the ground. Ill get on the phone and maybe in-person in a matter of days, but I really want to know how you write first.

Regarding writing, a couple more thoughts your first message doesnt have to be long--you never know who will respond. I very likely will, but Im not swearing to it. Also, dont worry about mistakes or SMS-abbreviations. Im interested in your content. I am not a grammar, spelling, or punctuation snob.

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3/14/2023 10:49:48 PM

Feel free to send a very short response the first time because I just returned to this site after being gone for 15 months.  I've done that before, too.  I disappeared in part because I gave real-world contact info to one potential domme.  We had a lovely series of emails, and we talked on the phone for a while.  For a while, that looked possible enough that I didn't come back here.  The discussion eventually hit some temporary roadblocks, but I plan to get back in touch with her, too.

I'm still in the same home as my last entry.  The "red alert" ended.  There is no despartion to move, but if I'm going to be a slave, it still makes sense to be a live-in slave.  I will move almost anywhere in the South, and a handful of other places.

 


11/20/2021 2:58:47 PM

I find that I am in exactly the same position as almost exactly 3 years ago.  I need to move, and I'd consider being a live in slave. 

I have to laugh at my mentioning not being a spelling snob and such.  Please be aware that this system / site removes a bunch of punctuation and even entire words or parts of words. Its a demented attempt at software security. If you look at your outgoing messages or your profile from an outsiders point of view, youll probably see what I mean.  You can see the phenomenon from your edit profile screen, too.

 


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 Age: 21
 Singapore, Singapore