successful professional with a strong submissive desire but a slight dominant streak. After entering the (SM) Lifestyle I became very thoughtful, as I asked myself:

"What the hell am I doing her and why" slaves lick their Dom(mes) feet or give them oral service for their pleasure, Dom(mes) strap their slaves to the wall or different equipments and take their time to torture their slaves bodys. Where is the pleasure for the sub or Dom(me)?

We all love to do something for our partners.

We do need each other to keep our lifes in balance.

How should one bring to words which feelings a person has while bringing his/her partners body to shiver. It may shiver of pain, destress or lust but it's the mental connection which makes it so special for all parties involved.

I am here to find my partner for a long time relation (LTR). This may lead to a wonderful 24/7 situation in the future.

My orientation says "switch" because I have tried both sides but with different partners.
The other reason is that even if I prefere to be a submissiv / slave to a domiant partner it does not mean that I submit myself the whole time.

My submissive side never tries to dominate from the bottom. I wouldn't allow that the other way round.

I hope to hear from you soon!