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About YesSirJ
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What is a slut? Do you think of yourself as a slut? Do you think because you have “dirty” or “dark” sexual thoughts that you are this subspecies of female and you are only good for the depravity and enjoyment of a man? Can I just say this up front. My reference to woman here as a “slut” has to do with society and the mindset towards women. I personally do not view any woman as a slut. The use of slut in the context of how I write is referencing a mindset, a position of submission, a choice made to set aside her power to become “slutty”… If you ever research what a slut actually is, you will begin to grasp the concept of my blog. It’s not just about sex, domination, it a place that I explore and express my process and understanding of what a healthy Dom/Sub relationship should be. The origin of a slut dates back to 1400-1500’s and references those women who were “untidy” or “dirty”. Think of the mindset towards women then. Think of the rules that were placed on them by society to conform to this cookie cut image. Those women that didn’t confirm were sluts. Have we changed that much? So if you are a female with natural sexual urges, needs, and thoughts that go against what is expected of you by society and culture you are considered “untidy”… I am not saying go put every dick you can find inside your vagina. I do believe in moderation and health implications etc. I do believe in knowing your self worth and being a strong sexual woman. I’m talking about the mindset and fear that you live in. Feeling condemned so much to the extent you can’t even explore your sexuality without judgement. The irony is that many times I see men manipulating women to think that is all they are so they can derive pleasure from that. If that is what you think my fb is or want as a woman please un-follow this page. If anything I want my followers to understand that quite simply, “You got the pussy, you got the power”… Sorry to be so blunt. Once you truly understand your self worth and allow your self to explore who you are as a sexual being without fear, you will realize that submission is merely ALLOWING the conveyance of control to a person you trust. That doesn’t make you a “slut” that makes you powerful and free.. ~Sir |
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