I've explored spanking and daddy/son roleplay in a few encounters, but have never been part of a long term relationship. I would like to find one. I'm not a huge pain freak- for one thing I'm a novice, but I don't get turned on even by the idea of being in extreme pain. For me, what makes a punishment erotic is humiliation, vulnerability, and submission. I've mostly been a sub, but I'm really wanting to explore my dom side as well now.
I like being forced to wear short shorts with no underwear, lycra, and juvenile attire. I also enjoy forcing my lover to wear such things.
In terms of non-kinky interests, I am a student of religion, and I enjoy manga and anime fandom, SF and Fantasy fandom, and crocheting. My music is classical and symphonic metal. I do a bit of writing- see my website.
I consider myself to be either on the bi side of gay or the gay side of bi. I don't have kids but want them eventually.
