Yadymekam

Raw & truthful?

You require a man who is willing to be extraordinarily unattached – one that’s willing to give up any hidden agenda

You require an extraordinary degree of raw honesty

You require a man who’s willing to focus on you, to honor you, to listen to you, to care for you. But not to patronize you.

You require a man that loves you and is devoted to you; but not one who is less than you or who puts you on a pedestal & doesn’t see you as you really are.

You require a man who will stand up to you when that’s what’s called for.

You require a man who can move with you through all of your different moods – rage, frustration, humor, hurt, love, lightness, spirit, wicked fun, intelligence, sexiness, appetite, happiness – without trying to change you of “fix” you.

You require a man with spirituality, humor, intelligence, a big heart and a big nasty streak

You require a man who’s confident; confident enough to laugh at himself and confident enough to lead, guide, protect and teach you. Real confidence, not false bravado or arrogance.

You require a man who can be trusted – a man of integrity.

You require a man who is disciplined

You require a man who knows when to go with the flow and when to take command and be responsible

You require a man with passion and humility

You require a man with refined tastes and a love for what’s raw and untamed

You require a man who’s good in bed or at least one with the openness and willingness to learn

You don’t need all of these from a lover, but you do need them from a partner.

Very few men have all of these.

I think that you haven’t owned that you really do need all of these. You may have given up that you really can have these all in one man.