YabYumCpl

First off, quick note: Not interested in single males of either Dom or sub persuasion. She is just not that interested in men unless in the context of serving him, and he only plays with very close friends and mostly for fun, not need or fulfillment.

Every time I begin writing something I feel like I want to stretch it into a novel, but I will fight that urge. The writing never goes beyond a lot of short stories anyways. We have been together for about a year now and are Dom / sub, Tantrikas, hippies, burners, kinky, tactile, open-minded, healers (in our own ways – we like helping others), and laid back. We each learn from each other a little bit in different ways, and above all things communication makes the world go round. He is into more low-key activities such as art, programming, eastern studies (particularly Taoism and Tantra), crafts, games, and psychology. Kink wise he enjoys training (for show), floggers, paddles, and hypnoerotica, as well as most things that are unusual or intense. The list of limits would be much shorter to cover. She is quite playful, enjoys deep communication (especially nvc), is a trained massage therapist, and enjoys what she is told to enjoy, particularly pain, exhibitionism, and various verbal play. She also has a sadist streak that she is interested in exploring. She is also very bi and prefers playing with women. We are not so much looking right now, rather we are open to couples or single women we have something in common with beyond play – and who enjoy sexuality and conversation as well as kink. We are open to a regular female bottom. For something like that she would have to share our interests, be a complete bottom (there for our pleasure and service), few limits, generally low-key, relaxed, drama-free and capable of deep communication when asked. Should enjoy reading and learning! We tend to be very loyal to and protective towards friends we grow close to, so we are also careful regarding whom we bring into that circle.