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42 M USA Master, seeking young (24 or younger), cute sub/boi slave, must be smooth (or willing to be shaved), skinny to fit, obedient, light skinned, for near Omaha
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3/2/2014 3:41:34 PM

Please forgive the rant.  But it must come out.

Let's face it, I am attracted to young guys.  Yes, I know.  Those of you that have dealt with them probably know exactly where this is going.  One question, what's the deal with these moody, whiny, bitchy, little boy sluts?

They think that just because they jacked off to a BDSM video or story that suddenly they have what it takes to be a slave.  They see the sex, the sexy horny part of a scene and suddenly they believe they too can be a slave.  Hours spent talking with them, explaining that yeah, it's pretty awesome but there is more to being a slave than 20min to a few hours of this or that.  I even offer them the opportunity to just try a session out.  But no, they want the full boat.

Then the day comes, supposed to meet at such and such time.  The time comes and goes.  No show.  Then a week or 2 later, hey Master, this is your slave.  I really want to do it this time.  Here lets set a date and time.

Well today, I just came down hard on a slave wanna be.  Basically told him, he needs to really think hard about whether or not he really needs to be a slave, whether or not he really NEEDS a Master in his life.  No more, late night I'm horny, lets talk about being a slave.  

I really do understand that this is a big step for them to commit to a Master, to show up and be in scene.  To go for more than just scene.  I told him that I would no longer take anything he has to say seriously until he is standing right in front of me.  I informed him he no longer has the privilege of referring to me as Master or himself as a slave when talking with me.  

I would be open for any other Master's or slave's thoughts on this.  See where this goes.  Any ideas?




8/16/2013 12:15:39 AM

About my ideology:

I do want to make one thing clear; I am not just a Dom, I am a Master.

What does that mean?  

Well, I understand you don't just want to serve, you NEED to serve.  It is just as important to you as breathing, eating, playing or any other thing in your life.  It is more than just being filled with cock and played with everyday or every now and then.  You want someone to take seriously your need to serve your Master and train you accordingly.  You want someone that you can trust your mind/body to because that is what you are offering.  

As your Master, your training will be psychological, physical, sensual, emotional and sexual.  I follow the RACK & CSS credos.  READ:  "RACK BDSM

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Things to expect in training include:  

Sensual Play (limiting of one or more of your senses, being bound, blind folded, gagged, touch and sensation, pinching, tickling. love biting), Nipple Play and torture(using licking, love bites, clothespins, suckers or clamps),

CBT (to include cock rings and ball spreaders, light to moderate slaps and/or grabs, flicking, edging, cum restriction, lots of pre-cum play),

Anal Play (fucking, dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, beads, A-Spot manipulation),

Psychological/Emotional: I will use psychological and emotional techniques to enhance your training, punishment and pleasure,

 

Sexually you will become familiar with yourself like you have never been before (you will feel heightened pleasure for longer periods of time that you have ever experienced, through this you will learn how to please any cock, any man placed before you)

**[speaking of that, you will not work with anyone besides me until I feel that you are ready for that and you are agreeable to that].  


This is not a complete list, it is only meant to give you an idea of what to expect.

 

 

I am not into Blood or SCAT.  

But you do need to be aware, for sessions and anal play your ass will be expected to be clean, if it is not a proper punishment may be to clean your Master's finger off with your tongue (this is a teaching/learning purpose punishment only!!!).


 

I take your safety and training seriously and expect you to do the same.  That being said, communication is very important, anything that will be done to you will be discussed and you will have opportunity to weigh in on it and ask questions, your opinions will always be taken into consideration.

 

 

During the initial training you WILL be expected to prove yourself worthy of your Master's valuable time.  If you do wish to be my slave then you need to be aware that I do require my slave/s to be completely smooth.  You will not be a young man, you will be like a young boy (face clean shaven (no mustache, beard or goatee), smooth arm pits, chest, stomach, cock, balls and ass.)  The only body hair you will be allowed is the hair on your head.


10/26/2012 1:42:17 AM

First meeting with Master:

After having several conversations with my slave of choice, I will set a date for the first meeting.  In most cases that meeting will be set to take place for anywhere from 2-4 hours or longer of the slave chooses.  What I will discuss is the first 2-4 hrs of session. One thing I do wish to note is I firmly believe in the pain/pleasure cycle.  What I mean by that is after any type of pain the body part that receives the pain will be caressed or manipulated until the pain subsides.  To me it is like thanking that part of the body for being used.  Pain has uses as a learning/teaching tool, discipline and for increasing levels of pleasure as a distraction.  It is my personal belief that pleasure should immediately follow pain in some form or another.

Upon arrival with minimal communication the slave will strip himself of his clothes.  The slave will be addressed on issues of protocol (e.g. Sir, Master at the end of all responses and a negotiation of appropriate punishments).  The slave will be advised that he can leave at any time; he only needs to advise me and state "I am unworthy to be in Master's presence and unfit to be considered as Master's slave".  

I will perform an inspection on the slave, making sure to get his cock hard (as it should be, in Master's presence).  While performing the inspection I will set the slave in a standing present position.  I will make the slave aware that this is the standing present position and he will be learning 4 positions in this first meeting and it is very important he remembers them.  As far as the slave knows, I will pay little attention to him while in that position.  But really, I will be aware of him and how well he is maintaining the position I have set him in.  If I happen to notice the slave's cock has subsided I will move back to the slave and arouse him again.

When I see that the slave is getting uncomfortable in the standing present position, I will ask the slave if he needs a break from that position.  If the slave's response is "yes", I will move him into a kneeling present position, which is the same only the slave is set on his knees.  If the slave has managed to lose his hard on, while in the first present position I will arouse him again and advise him of techniques he has at his disposal to maintain his hard on.  At this point, I will begin actively engaging the slave.  I will make further inquiries about the slave and talking about the role.  I will use this time to put together a clear picture in my mind with the rest of the encounter will involve.  Through my questioning and the slave's face to face answers I will be able to develop a clear picture of this slaves level of comfort, his experience and further develop a trust with him.  During this time, I will also deal with the slave on issues of eye contact; personally, eye contact is a requirement when a slave answers his Master after being spoken too, as soon as his response is completed the slave’s eyes should immediately be lowered to the ground.

After that phase has been complete, the next position is the all 4s present.  By that time, I am usually thirsty.  I will offer the slave a chance to stretch himself out by getting Master a drink and allow the slave to have a drink too if he is so inclined.  Once the drinks are done, I will commend the slave for making it this far and give a constructive appraisal.  I will then place the slave in the all 4s present to the side of my chair.  When properly placed, simply dropping my hand down from the side of my chair will have it resting on the slaves buttocks.  While the slave is in this position, I will then be getting the slave use to the touch of Master's hand.  My hand will have free range of motion across slave's shoulders, down arms, across slave's back and sides, inner and outer legs both sides of the bum and his hole.  I will be able to specifically identify touch responses of the slave, and accustom the slave to Master's free access to his hole.  I will use this time to further arouse the slave, having thought ahead to make sure plenty of lube is available.  I will advise the slave that he does not have permission to cum and he is required to advise me when he is close.

Once the slave is acceptably aroused, I will then have the slave move into the final position that he needs to learn.  I will move the slave to right in front of me, in all 4s position.  I will then tell the slave to let his arms stretch out in front of him, so this will force his butt to a high position fully exposing his hole, cock and balls to his Master.  From this position, I will edge the slave 2-4 times using only the slaves A spot and the ridge between his hole and balls.

At this point, with the slave fully aroused; I will usually give my slave his first chance to service his Master's cock.  Slave will be advised not to play with his cock and reminded that he does not have permission to cum.  Once the slave as completed servicing Master's cock, if the slave shows a liking, interest, tolerance to piss play; Master will wash his cum down; if not, we will proceed to the next step.

The next step is slave psychological bondage.  In this part of the process, slave will be placed in either standing or kneeling present as Master edges him by his cock.  During this time there will be light nipple play, light CBT (cock ball torture) and some anal play.  The whole point of this, is slave is free by hand movement to interfere (as slave's hands are not bound) but slave must choose to keep his hands behind his head.  This is a very important process.  This is the slave himself choosing by his will alone to submit to the manipulations of the Master.  Most Masters will either skip this process or completely mess it up thinking that this is a limits testing time.  This is merely one more time for slave to commit himself to submitting to Master.  I will usually edge the slave another 2-4 times in this position.  At this point, every slave I have ever dealt with will have commented more than once that this is the most pre-cum they have ever seen from their cocks.  From this point forward, we will be sharing his precum. My slaves balls will be fully loaded and they will have more than once admitted their desire to cum.  I will use slaves balls to bring his cock back to half mast, and then thank them appropriately.

** Master's Note:  when I say edging for 2-4 times; I want to be clear, I am referring to serious edging; I am watching for the subtle physical signs in my slave, whether it be goose bumps or sweat beads signs of impending loss of control.  Servicing Master's cock will have been an unknown distraction to him.

I will distract slave with something so that he can cool down once again from a missed orgasm.  At this point, we are usually an hour to an hour and a half into session.  

The next phase will be the true bondage part of the session.  I will bind the upper half of the slave's body to a table.  I will place a blindfold over the slave’s eyes.  I have found a 6' leash works well for dealing with the slave’s legs.  The loop goes around one ankle, make a loop on the end with the clip and lock the clip in the loop and pull the made loop around the other ankle, then pull the slaves legs up, over and place the leash behind the slaves neck.  Prop the slave’s ass up with a pillow or two and you have full access to the slave's tits, cock, balls, ass, and hole.  If necessary I will arouse the slave again, then personally I like to blindfold the slave.  I will play with the slave’s nipples and anything else that suits my fancy.  

If I choose to do a punishment phase, it will happen at this time.  During this I will have a list of transgressions that will be discussed and acceptable punishments will be agreed too.  At this time there will be some spankings, generally no less than 15 and no more than 45 (depending on the slaves tolerances, varying degrees of pain and all by hand).  The slave will count out each spank, thanking his Master for taking time to administer to him.  I prefer a pattern of 5 on each cheek and 5 catching both cheeks.  An important thing to remember about spankings is this is a definitely a pain/pleasure moment, after each set of 5, I take the time to gently caress the offended spot before moving on to the next set.  The only variance I really use is if I am dealing with a pain slave (a slave that experiences heightened arousal through pain) then I will do so after each set of 15.

Next, I will edge the slave; return the slave to half hard.  Arouse the slave again, put some earplugs in the slave’s ears so he has some music to listen to (volume adjusted so slave cannot hear Master's footsteps), place a safe muffling gag on the slave and walk away for 15-20 minutes.  This is just to let the slave stew, mentally and psychologically in his aroused state.  In this phase I am letting the slave absorb mentally/physically/psychologically/emotionally everything that has taken place up until the present.  I may actually leave the room for 10-15 minutes but I always return to admire at least the last 5 minutes of this state of being for the slave.

The next part of this will vary slightly according to the slave’s personal experience with bondage.  In most cases when I place myself back in scene with the slave, he will be in a bit of a mess.  The slave will be experiencing increased breathing, racing heart and such as part of the fight or flight response.  The slave will have tried a few or more times to get loose and failed.  There will usually be some imagined fear at play plus the full realization of the state that he is in.  All of these responses need to be dealt with.  I find that a soft, soothing and relaxing light massage works well in this situation, starting with the legs just below the ankles, (making sure to release any binds in the leash being used as a strap to hold the slave’s leg, working down the legs next, then the sides, stomach and chest.  After that has been completed, I will remove the earphones and gag.  I will talk the slave through gaining control of himself.  A soothing and reassuring discussion about the negative thoughts he may have been having and what the slave could have done to control those thoughts.  While having this discussion I will be slowly arousing the slave again.  Arousal will mainly concentrate on the slaves nipples and a spot, because as of yet I have never had a slave go soft during this type bondage.  As precum production restarts, I will remove the slave’s blindfold and allow his eyes to adjust.  At this point, the slave is completely aroused and nearing where I actually want him to be.  Anyone who has been through something similar knows exactly what I am talking about.  The most common descriptive word I have heard used for this is the fog or haze.

The slave has 2 competing goals in mind.  He wants to be fucked and he wants desperately to cum.  When asked which is more important to the slave, he will be completely dumbfounded and a smart slave will respond “Whatever Master wants”, but that is expecting a lot of a slave in this position. 

I will release my slave’s legs and remove his binds.  I will then take my slave, giving him permission to cum and he will enjoy an experience that will easily rank in the top 5 of all of his experiences to date.  My slave will announce to me, that this is the first time or it has been a long time since he has ever cummed that much or experience and orgasm this intense.  We will share his release and he will be allowed to clean his Master’s cock, if he desires. 

After care is the next very important step of this process.  I will compliment and insure my slave knows he performed admirably.  We will discuss everything that happened during the session.  I will answer any questions my slave has about the session or anything else that is on his mind.  I will assure him that he always has a safe place by my side. 

Master Devan


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 Age: 26
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