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I have deleted all messages received in the last 3 months unread, so if you messaged me I didn't read it. Please view messaging me as an opportunity to introduce yourself, so please don't just say things like
"Hi how are you"
" how  is your day going"
"mistress I'm on my knees waiting for your command"

thats a perfect way for me to click delete. Say something interesting, enticing, inviting, welcoming, funny  
 
I've just ended a BDSM relationship and I'm looking for amusement. I'm not looking for a LTR but wouldn't rule that out if the right submissive lay himself at my feet and I felt good about him. 

You should be clear that I am not willing to be use as a tool of a submissive man's self loathing, and  self punishment. I wish to be a reinforcement of the idea that submission is a gift and I would enjoy it and reciprocate with positive behavior. You should also have high self esteem, and be living a full life. I'm not a mommy domme, and have not time for babies.
I won't rule out a long term relationship with a submissive man, I'm not actively seeking anything to serious. I enjoy being pursued, by a  submissive man who understand what protocol to follow.
Over a life time I have collected fantasies. From books, movies, music, art and from men. Some I've enjoy and left behind and others I have chosen to mold and change and make my own. There nothing like setting the stage for an old favorite or being inspired to create something entirely new. First rule of the making is that I'm in control. Always. Finding a man who can confidently be controlled and find comfort in that space is an ongoing search. I'm not a public player, this is not a statement of shame, but as one of self respect. Privacy is my right as an American and I try very hard to protect it and respect the privacy those I may choose to play with. 
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