XxSpiderxX

Female Submissive, 46

Looking again. Prefer someone to play with, edgy pain play with bondage. No sex required, in fact, I'm not really looking for that, as I have that covered. I just want to hurt you... ;)

Wow, I was prepared to type the exact same thing in my new entry as was in my last entry. I'm really sick of all this...

Just time for an update. I am lonely, and rather downtrodden by peoples judgement of my age. And thus, I will stop e-mailing people first. To hell with it, ya know? I have a bit of experience with Shibari, so if you'd like to know anything about that, or borderline antisocial personality disorder, or just want to chat, just give me a message. :)? -Spider

Looking for willing submissive... After having been lied to by my last sub, I am looking for a sub who knows what she is talking about and is honestly interested in being a sub. A bit about me: I have been into the lifestyle for a few years, I've had quite a few subs, unfortunately none of them have quite matched up to what I am looking for. I enjoy shibari quite a bit, along with sensation play, including needles, knives, feathers and pain. I am quite the flexible Dom; in as far as I get into whatever my sub gets into. Kind of a service top, although I would encourage you not to be confused, I am not weak. I prefer the psychological aspect of the dynamic. I can be very strict when necessary and am willing to discipline. I want a sub I can learn from, not just a doormat. One that is interactive, not just going along with what I say because she doesn?t know any different. I want a sub that enjoys the smile on my face, not one who just needs to be controlled because she can?t do it herself. I will break you down, only because then it is that much more fun to build you up. I will beat you, only because the convalescence is then that much better. I will tie you up, only because letting go is then that much more freeing. In the end, I will cherish the power you give me, and love you all the more for it. I want to dominate someone who wants to submit. I can be a bit of a sadist at times, (Read, whenever I can) however I am not sick. I know that the only way to be able to control someone else is to have mastery over oneself first. I have infinite patience, as my past has taught me the value of time. And thus, I will persevere as long as it takes to find the right sub for me. I am very open to communication, making friends in the lifestyle, so please don't think that all I want out of this site is a sub, nor do I expect every e-mail to be from a prospective sub. I am looking for an s-type who knows who she is and what she can offer, and at the same time, knows what she wants and needs. I am also looking for play partners in the meantime. As well as a Mentor who can help me explore the dynamic and psychology of the lifestyle along with other aspects of my lack of knowledge. I love to explore, and need companions on this little journey called life. -Spider

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