Don't message me if you don't know the meaning of common courtesy and how to treat a lady.?
I don't like being called a slut by a stranger and no i'm not a cam whore. ''Also am far from interested in married men.''
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I was born Year of the Tiger. I am a Taurus.
I know my strengths an weaknesses and strive to be a better person than I was the day before.?
People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you will know exactly what to do.
loves:?Dutch culture and the good side of Asian cultures their manners and family values, water aerobics, pilates, jet ski's, Aromatherapy, Art Therapy, shopping, kittens, traveling experiences, books on life lessons, meditation, moon stones and opals, gardening, painting and drawing, clay, funny films, beach at night, Thai and Japanese food, all kinds of music, poetry.
Currently studying:?nursing
Some of my beliefs
You really can do anything at all if you have the right mindset, inspiration can do wonders.
To be happy with who you are and to be at peace with yourself and the world.
When someone lies to you, it is because they don't respect you enough to be honest, and they think you are too stupid to know the difference.
Learn to trust in yourself, trust the decisions that you make for yourself... for your well being. If someone is hurting you through disrespect/not keeping their word than it is up to you to decide to keep them apart of your life or leave them behind.
Sometimes love just isn't enough, hard but true.
*We need to Integrate what we learn, in
order for it to be effective & useful...
Otherwise, it?s just useless ?head
knowledge*?.....
Maturity?comes from reflecting on whatever experiences you have had and integrating them into your psyche. More experiences means more data. Age means more time to have experiences and more time to reflect on them*.
Self Mastery
Looking at every aspect of oneself, controlling and being aware of those aspects. Knowing and accepting who you are. Achieving true contentment from within. Over come negative influences either past or present.
The Four Steps of Empowerment:
? 1. See things as they are now (Self‐Honesty)
? (but not worse than they are)
? 2. Accept everything as it is now (Acceptance)
? 3. See it the way you want it to be (Vision)
? Envision it; Visualize it
? 4. Make it the way you see/envision it (Using your
Resources & your
Resourcefulness)*
You alone are responsible for your attitude
Favorite quotes :
?Continuous effort - not strength or intelligence - is the key to unlocking our potential.
?In the private sanctuary of one's own conscience lies that spirit, that determination?to cast off the old
person and to measure up to the stature of true potential.? -Thomas S. Monson
?It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.?
- Sir Edmund Hillary, Explorer
?To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.?
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
"You can read to gain knowledge, but you must seek to gain wisdom"
"Imagination is more important than knowledge"- Albert Einstein
"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it." -John Lennon
leadership is not just a title or position, it is a gift of wisdom and respect that others feel when being commanded. without servents there are no leaders.
It is a man's own mind, not his enemy or foe, that lures him to evil ways. ~Buddha
Being out of control is one of the worst feelings in the world, sometimes even worse than pain. It is its own kind of pain. ~Danzae Pace
The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. ~Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1891
Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations which it requires strength, strength and courage to yield to. ~Oscar Wilde
It's all right letting yourself go, as long as you can get yourself back. ~Mick Jagger
If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins. ~Benjamin Franklin
Just for fun quiz results:
Experimentation is a great place to be. Open-mindedness when it comes to sexuality can open doors and allow you to discover things that you didn't think you would find engaging. Having such a curious attitude can help you learn more about your own sexual nature as well as the nature of others.
