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About xWynnex
So here is the catch: I am asexual. I am unsure of my stance on sex these days aside from I just don't have an urge for it.
I have an interest in forming a long term romantic relationship with someine on top of a D/s relationship. I am a submissive by nature, and I have a few interests I wouldn't mind discussing via messaging.
Personally I am rather closed off to start, so share a bit of yourself first before I do. It often helps.
I am a bunny. I scare easily. Lure me out nicely please.
Your body parts hold no real intetest to me. I do not wish to see them at this moment in time.
I squeak when I'm startled and gasp and flail and prance around.
I enjoy sitting at my owner's feet and resting my head on their knee as well as (attempting) to cook for them. I also like to clean.
I'm almost like a house bitch. Hey look, that's my curreny job title. "House Bitch" (nanny). |
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Brief Guide on Messaging Me
Mostly so I might avoid unpleasant messages.
I am a bunny and I startle easily. This often means:
- I run away from those who send me pictures of sexual organs or sexual acts.
- I am startled by extremely sexual demands upon first message.
I am also asexual. This means:
- I will not respond to messages that have sexual propositions.
- I do not appreciate being told you can help "change" or "fix" me. I am not broken. There is nothing wrong with disliking sex. It is not a phase. I am not confused.
I am a bunny-type personality, but I am not a furry or otherkin. I want an owner.
I do not want a daddy.
I like dominance, but I will not be an object. I am a pet, not a hole.
Sadly, a massive age gap will likely not work for me. 30 years old is the highest I might go, and that is pushing it.
I will update this as I go. |
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Here I will write a brief FAQ for those of you curious about how asexuality and BDSM fit. To be warned, this will only apply to me as an individual and others who also feel it fits them.
1. Why are you on a sex positive site when you are asexual?
Yes, this site is sex positive. However, this is also a site that caters to bdsm. I am interested in submission and pain even if I am not interested in sex.
2. Why are you interested in submission?
I work a job where I am in charge and shoulder a lot of responsibility. Several pieces if my personal life also follow the same theme. I need a way to let go. Sound familiar? Several submissives have the same reason they have turned to submission in the first place.
3. Why are you interested in pain?
I have deppression. This often comes with extreme apathy, a feeling of numbness to be honest. Bdsm is a safe and controlled environment to have pain inflicted on me as a way to cope. My alternatives are ofte. Desteuctive or something I will not do.
4. Will you have sex for your owner's desires if not your own?
It depends. How much do I trust my owner? Have they treated me properly as their pet bunny. Have they attempted to pressure me into sexual actions? This is not a question I can answer until the situation itself has come up.
5. Okay, so why does your profile say "bisexual"?
Do you see an option for "asexual"? I sure do not.
6. So you value mental/emotional traits over physical ones? No that is not it at all. I do not want sexual gratification. I have no need for it. I am even a little repulsed by it. When you choose to pursue me, do so with the expectation that I will never perform any sexual interactions with you. |
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Female Submissive, 32, Leeds
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