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Dominant Couple, 36
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Male Switch, 23, Adelaide, Sth Aus
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Male Switch, 26, wilmington, North Carolina
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About XstatiK
New, curious, absorbing. This site was recommended by a new friend in the lifestyle. Just interested in learning more, still feeling my way through this new and so very interesting world/lifestyle. Amidst our conversations I've discovered an immense amount of familiarity that was I was previously aware of in my own personal/sexual lifestyle, but it's relation to BDSM was very much unknown...and now is both welcome and enlightening.
Just looking to meet new friends to converse with and learn from. Although I have no experience in strict BDSM, my interests do and have crossed the planes between the "vanilla" world and the one you all share...albeit unknowingly.
Unsure of where I reside yet...too early, too much unknown and that I am curious about...but at a premature glance, I'd imagine I have mixed flavors of dom and sub, placing me in the switch...seems to be mood dependent, and has high variations based on present desires. Sometimes I enjoy being in a dominant role: {controlling, hair pulling, gagging, light pain, face slapping, light humiliation, spanking, restraint, etc}....other times in a submissive role: {wanting to please at all costs, obeying, begging, loving, caressing, gentle, caring, idolizing, pleading, being controlled/ordered, etc}.
I am very particular about whom I get involved with, so for now, I'm just looking for friends...with maybe the chance of something fun or something serious down the road. Only time will tell.
Intelligence, intellect, honesty, respect, and the ability to communicate are essential. As far as background, I am a professional in the "vanilla" world and have no interest in taking anything in the BDSM lifestyle to a 24/7 level, but moreso a privatized/part time venture. I am very deep rooted, pensive, perverse, thought provoking, intense, extremely sexual and open, playful, funny, sarcastic, determined, unwavering, honest, and loyal. My bounds are unknown, I just know there are things I am curious about trying, but find it difficult to find easily in the "vanilla" world.
That is all for now...if you have any questions, please feel free to message me. I am ONLY interested in women, no men and no trans.
I am also willing to exchange pictures, but probably will take me awhile to grow accustomed to this site and my pic will not be sent liberally, only after some discussion has taken place and I feel comfortable enough to do so.
Addendum: It's been a long time since I've been on this site, I was in a long term "vanilla" relationship that ended about a year ago. Thought I'd leave my profile as it was because not much has changed, naturally I didn't discover or experiment nearly as much as I'd have liked in my last relationship :)
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