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LordOfTheRopes
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hello.
here are the basics. if you're intrigued, even just a little bit - please feel free to send an email. i pretty much talk to anyone, so long as you behave like a gentleman. ;o)
me: 31, professional in corporate america - but recently relocated to Edinburgh, loves the arts, photography, fine dining, learning new languages and the simplicity of the smaller things in life. I absolutely LOVE to cook. I'm always trying to find something new to "wow" my friends with - and usually do! i'm the kind of girl you can take anywhere - to the beach, to symphony hall, to meet your boss and hang out with your dog. i am pretty laid back, always smiling, rarely get angry and avoid drama like the plague. i work hard. i play hard. i volunteer at the animal shelter and soup kitchen when i can. all in all, i think i'm a normal girl, with a big heart just looking for that one person who makes life just that much more sweet.
you: somewhere around my age, witty, intelligent and inherently dominating. I like funny guys, guys with good taste - in music, in life, in food... preferably close by, single [yes, as in not married and actually looking for an honest, meaningful, emotionally connected relationship] and not part of a couple. i've been down that road and do not care to traverse it again. I'm really not interested in relocating or starting up a long distance romance. If I chat with you online and like you, I'm going to want to spend real time with you. This means dinner during the week. A movie on the couch on Tuesday. I'm sure you understand, yeah? :)
I enjoy the sensual, mental aspects of this lifestyle and tend towards the bondage/discipline side, rather than the sado-masochistic. however, there does need to be a little kink thrown in for good measure. all in all, i'm in it for the mind fuck, if you will. [do excuse my french, i told you i liked learning foreign languages..]. i want, crave, need to be controlled. i want to feel his hand around my heart. for when he controls my heart, he controls all i have. no?
i can promise you that if you immediately start asking about what my limits are, what kind of sex i like, what toys are my favorites.. you will promptly be ignored and deleted. this conversation comes after we get to know each other as people, because really, isn't that what this whole "collar me" thing is all about? a meaningful relationship between two people?
the sex will come [i promise], and so will the kink - but i need to know that i like you as a human being before i'm willing to divulge my deepest, darkest desires to a complete stranger.
ok then. :o)
now that we've got that settled.. i welcome new friends, new conversations, new bottles of wine to be shared among like minded people.
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my apologies for not responding to everyone who's written to me over the last few weeks. this new job.. well, let's just say it's taking up ALL of my time..
i think until it calms down a bit, my search will need to be put on hold.. =/
sad lil girl.
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i'll be in Edinburgh as of 10 Jan 2010, and am in the process of a bit of a re-write on the profile.. stay tuned.
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i just wanted to say a quick, but heartfelt thank you to all of you whom've been so understanding of the way my life has been, and continues to be: chaotic.
i appreciate you, and your kindness. |
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so. been awhile since i've been here. lots has happened..
for those of you who know me, have known i've been taking care of my father for the last year. he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in May of 2008.. and sadly, lost his fight this past August.
things were just starting to get back to normal, when work stepped in and threw me an awesome curve ball.
i'm moving to edinburgh. i'm so excited, i can't stand it. i've been working towards, waiting and hoping for an opportunity like this one my whole career.. and i've finally made it happen.
i'll probably be leaving somewhere around mid to late october.. i'll miss things here, without a doubt..
but i need a new start to life. and now, seems like the perfect time.
much love.
-kristen |
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Sushi at the Tsujiki Fish Market. Copious amounts of Sake and Pocky. Overnight hike to the sumit of Mt Fuji to welcome the new sun. Hello Kitty Land. Sakura (cherry blossoms!) in Kyoto.
Japan, here i come. and the best part? my father is well enough to join us.
life is good.
sayonara! |
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Holy Crazytown! LOL Have fun, SP!
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can i just tell you what an incredibly lucky girl i am? this weekend has been one of the most phenomenal weekends of my life. as some of you know, i've lived in newport and jamestown for the last few years - so i have many friends down that way. this weekend was the festival of tall ships - so i headed down to witness the craziness.
on saturday, i was invited - quite unexpectedly - to go out on a fellow photographers brand new 45 ft. yacht. the sun was shining, the breeze was warm, and i could not have asked for a more spectacular day to be on the ocean. there were a couple ships in the bay giving tours over to narragansett and back. we had a few drinks on the boat and Clint gave me a few tips on using my camera [I bought it from him a couple years ago - so he knows it well!]
Today, we spent the day at a friends house, right next to the Newport Bridge. We had a front and center, completely unobstructed view of the harbor and Parade of Sails. I was able to shoot each and every ship that passed by. With each ship that came, I was more and more transported back into time.. all these pirate/colonial looking ships were all so beautiful, so majestic.. it made me wonder what is was like to sail on them; before all these large motor boats were around - before cars, planes, trains.. there were these magnificent ships.
anyway, lots of watermelon later.. i'm quite tanned, feeling the exhaustion of the salty air and running around and absolutely loving life.
life, truly, is beautiful. |
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i see you looking at me.
just write something.
i won't bite.
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