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Greetings! Mature Transboi (FTM, on T, no surgery as yet)-service submissive, past houseboy, Old Guard mentored Leatherman-seeks play/more training. i have experienced bondage-rope/steel/caging, and impact play including hand spanking, flogging, paddling and caning. i wish to try more, including hot wax, cell popping, fucking machines and watersports. Like breathplay, but only when done with a cock in my throat, not with a chokehold. i am very open to experimentation and to learning from/serving Dominants on any part of the sex/gender/orientation spectrum, regardless of how i may identify out in the world. i'm also very into Leather/uniforms, boots, and gloves-i'm just getting into Rubber but no gear yet.. And while i identify as a gay and generally seek cis- and Transmen (especially Bears) to play with, in a scene (and sometimes beyond) i do not limit myself. Some people have questioned me about that; my best answer is this... The Life for me is first to last about the exchange of Power. it is what causes the submissive in me to respond-it is what makes me notice You in particular, even when the room is filled to the brim with 'Sirs,' it is what draws me to kneel to you, serve you without hesitation, and hope to please You with my offerings-of pain, pleasure, obedience, yes-but also with those gifts from the fundament of my being, those emotional/spiritual offerings that i feel people such as ourselves see more clearly-particularly so when our corporeal selves and emotional selves are in certain states of heightened awareness...that is, when we connect, and are hopefully imbued with that wonderful unnameable transcendent intensity. In the day-to-day, i am a freelance graphic/visual artist, photographer and sometime model with the ubiquitous day job. i love music-and food!-of almost any genre and am an ardent reader as well. i have an elderly kitty who by now has me well trained, and love animals of all types (though i am a little allergic to birds). i am currently looking for a new apartment, and in the meantime i cannot host; i will however split motel room costs whenever feasible. if Y/you have any questions for me or would just like to say hello please do-i answer all of my emails. i always work with a safe word; we can discuss hard limits in private. In general though, nothing heavy-though i am open to discussion-definitely no kids, no scat/enemas, nothing that will permanently mark me or cause a trip to the ER--sane play. and while i am a social drinker on occasion, i do not use any mind-altering substance-liquid, gas or solid-when engaged in play and absolutely will not play with a Dominant if i feel that they are in the least impaired or are attempting to use implements they have not yet learned how to use. And, as i am only moderately experienced and have been 'our of action' for about a year, something may come up for me that may be a hard limit now, but, depending on the Person, may be become more relaxed or disappear over time... Other than those caveats preceding, it's all a go. Please feel free to contact me in any context. With Respect, in Leather, xenophonsboi
Spicychocolate
 
 Age: 25
  Washington