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Female Dominant, 31, London
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Female Submissive, 25
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Male Submissive, 20
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About xdollx
I'm passionate and fun-loving, a bit adventurous...I enjoy pleasure, sometimes a thrill-seeker... I love taking and sharing pics, chatting, maybe i have a bit of a wild streak...I adore my friends on CM and in my life outside of here...
To clear the air before it gets asked...No, I won't do cam shows. The people that claim I must be fake because I don't do cam shows will be BLOCKED....for those of you who don't get it, let me explain...some of us choose to come out here to share ourselves, let off steam, make friends...it isn't a career for me...I have a job and a real life...my home situation doesn't allow me to sit naked in front of my pc and play (even though I do enjoy being watched lol)...it doesn't mean I'm not real...I'm as real as they get...sorry, my pics, texts, convo will have to be enough until further notice....
Lifestyle Stuff
I am a submissive, for the right Man, I would become a slave. Don't expect me to rush head-first into complete submission, few limits, and that kind of deal. It takes a lot of trust, and conversations to even be able to submit as a sub to someone. I imagine online, that process will increase substantially. Does that mean I plan to talk for weeks, months, or years before submitting? No. I do believe that for both the Dom and sub, there are genuine feelings that are felt very early on in honest open conversations.
I have played within the lifestyle for 3 years in real-life. I, by no means think I know everything, in fact...I know that I have a lot to learn, and a lot of training to go through. I do have limits, nothing illegal. Under no circumstances will I do anything with a child, or animal. I will not entertain any kind of scat play. I will not have any kind of discussion about Poly or Households that already have an alpha female already in the picture. I will not at anytime consider a Mistress nor a submissive male. I feel that it goes without saying that I am not interested in seeing any pictures of your body parts.
Moving on to things that I just toats can't get enough of ~
- Having my hair pulled
- Being Spanked
- Being Slapped
- Being Choked
- Rape Play
- Knife Play
- Eye Restictions
- Collars
- Total Power Exchange (as long as limits are followed)
- Needle Play
- Corsets
- Cornertime
- Caning
- Some age play
- Puppy-girl play
- Speaking Restrictions
- Micro-Management
- Humiliation (public and private)
- Orgasm control and denial
- ect.... *ask* ;)
Wow! You made it this far?? I am toats impressed! There are a few things that I feel need to be discussed before you consider reading further. If you are only looking for online play, I am not the right girl. I want something long-term. Real, in person. I want to feel Your breath at my ear as You tell me to kneel. I am not one of the "Shades of .." subs. I KNOW what I expect, and how it feels to have a Man's hand gripping at the base of my hair, pulling my head back and growling an order to me, and I know how my mind and body respond when it is the right Man doing it. Yes, I did say, the right Man. There are a few men that I have come across in my play sessions, that just do not do anything for me mentally even though the time we spent together was fun. Having said that, if I don't have some sort of connection with You on a deeper level, we will not work out, and it will not last. Speaking of the right Man...
The right Man
First, I must make it perfectly clear that I believe in traditional roles. A woman is meant to serve the Man she is with. Not EVERY man. She is to be respectful, and obedient. Now, When I think of the right Man for me...I have conflicting thoughts. Of course, EVERY woman has a specific list of looks that she is looking for. I have mine. However, a proper Dom/sub relationship, is based upon so much more than looks, isn't it? I'd be lying if I said I am willing to consider any Man in the universe. Here is my list -
MUST HAVES
- Alpha Man
- Employed Gainfully
- Educated (Must have College Degree)
- In control of His life
- Not living at home with His parents
- MUST be able to take on responsibility for another human being (even though subs and slaves are often not considered equals, this is a key condition for me)
- Understand that I am not looking to be "kept". (I am able to be gainfully employed as well(anywhere))
- Know that I am not looking for short-term
- Not be married or with another woman
- Must believe in "Natural Roles"
- Must be between 30-45.
- Please, be physically healthy, do not be 350+ lbs, and please don't consider McD's a real meal
- Cannot be a "bait-n-switch"/"Catfish" situation
- Sense of humor
- Strict but loving
- Honest
- Honorable
- Gentle
- Romantic
- Must know of or who Darcy (the literary character) is ;)
Desirable Qualities
- Not always in "Dom" mode
- Love of reading
- Love of intellectual conversation
- Love of 1950s style household
- Know how to cook and clean and be willing to share in basic chores except,.. know that I will gladly do them all ;)
- Be willing to tolerate a girl who loves being held sometimes, and having moments where it is just us, no D/s even though there will still be respect shown
*laughs*...bet You thought that You were to the end...nope, not so fast. There is still more left to say. If, you have made it this far, and are still interested in striking up a conversation, feel free! I look forward to getting to know all of You.
I am also looking for like-minded friends, and if that is the case, feel free to disregard age-limits or the rules about submissive males or Mistresses. =)
I look forward to reading and responding to as many people as I can on a timely basis. Please understand if I fall behind a bit. Also, if You think that Your message got missed, send another. I feel like I may get swamped easily in this kind of setting. Especially with being "new meat".
~ much love ~
sammy
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