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Male Dominant, 45, washington, dc, Washington D.C.
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Male Dominant, 31, Miami, Florida
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About XavierSF
Power. Its why were both here.
I am a generally normal, well adjusted guy, and hopefully youre not insane either. But let me state the obvious if either of us were wholly satisfied by the simple mechanics of sex, wed never have looked for and found this site. Our palates are a bit more extravagant than normal, attracted to a little more spice.
The essence of my kink is control. Nothing ignites me more than the breathless pleading of a girl, desperate with arousal, who has willingly lain herself at my mercy and put her trust in my judgement. To take ownership of her sexuality, and ensure she is at all times reminded of her submission.
It is the psychological side of bdsm that moves me. The DS more than the SM. And if Im honest, despite the tone of this write-up, I fall more in the strict but sweet, Daddy end of the dominant spectrum.
I have some prior experience, but Im looking to explore more with an emphasis on things like orgasm control, discipline, humiliation, spanking, daily tasking, forced nudity clothing decisions, and more. However, my real fun comes from learning the things that quicken my subs pulse (and those that make her heart stop with apprehension) and pushing those buttons to make her life agonizingly intense and exciting.
Im not into involving strangers or advertising our dynamic to the public, though I do love imposing discreet, semi-public rules and challenges for extra excitement. Discretion is paramount, and keeping things realistic is important. The balance of vanilla and kink needs to be managed carefully. However, I suppose ideally I am looking for a bit more than just a slut in the bedroom arrangement. I want our power exchange to be in your thoughts more often than that, to keep you turned on and preoccupied with the knowledge that your body belongs to me.
Update Its been mentioned to me that I did a good job explaining what brought me to this site, but left out the rest of my life. I appreciate feedback, and looking now I totally agree, so here goes.
Im drawn to complexity, whether thats political structures, human psychology, computer software design, philosophy, intricate plot-lines and characters. But I like to unwind with a delicious meal, dry martini and some semi-mindless entertainment at the end of a long day and give my brain a rest it can be taxing focusing without a lovely sub to direct and dream on during the day.
Im a professional, with a rewarding career (one reason I value discretion around here - if we talk, Im happy to share pics, I just dont want them public). But whenever possible I love getting out of town and into nature. Camping, fishing, hiking, driving thru an empty countryside for hours with no schedule, shooting landscape photography, all of the above are what I find most restorative and enjoyable.
I really need to get back into language study, Ive let my skills deteriorate considerably and I miss being more fluid when traveling. Are you fluent in Spanish, french, german, italian, russian? Id love to learn from you.
I give a great massage. Im fun to talk to once you get past small talk. And Im highly protective and loyal to those I care about, like a cuddly mastiff.
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