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About Xallax
Ah, the dreaded "About you" section.
Simply put, if you want to know who I am, or more about me, then by all means, message me and ask. Do not ask me a question that you do not truly want the answer for.
The more complex answer, is this: I am a man, seeking a woman, for a short or long term relationship. This entirely depends on the nature of the relationship. If we speak and are mutually interested, then let us meet to explore further. It may be a simple conversation, it may be that we fuck the might away, or it could be that we meet and never look back.
Physical attraction is a must. That said, my attraction is based on 80% mental and 20% physical. The mental arousal of a good submissive, well-behaved babygirl, or a proper slave can be uncontrollable. However, without that 20% physical attraction, I am not interested.
I am not looking for a woman to just 'hang out' with, or go to group events with. I am looking for someone that is prepared to explore and discover a deeply intense MsDs relationship or a woman that already knows what she needs, and is willing to try, try again. There is a vast difference between a Dominant and dominate. Although mistakes are sometimes made, I am the former. There is also a vast difference between a Master and an egotistical asshole. Although mistakes are made, I am the former.
If you are curious for yourself, I will attempt to assist you, if you allow it. If you are interested and have read this far, message me. I don't do the whole 'reach out and spam women in hopes one will respond' thing. I am far too busy for that bullshit. If you want to make contact, do so and I will respond in kind. Ask, and I will answer.
I met a wonderful girl on collarme.com in 2012, we talked, met, and our relationship lasted 5 wonderful years. I have been lucky enough to meet a second, and we are seeing if we are a good fit. I really hate these self-promotions, and most seem pretty phony, but I will give my best effort. So... I have been called many things, but the one that I feel describes me most is a Renaissance man. I have a wide variety of interests and talents, most of them discovered through self-learning. I am the proverbial Jack of all Trades, master of none. I love to have long conversations about a myriad of topics. Choose one and discover for yourself! I feel that is important to have an educated opinion about a topic, not simply regurgitate the opinions of others. I am extremely difficult to label, or pin down on generality. My opinions and beliefs are living things, constantly growing and morphing as they are challenged and new information is processed. I am a sci-fi nerd, so if you are into Star Wars, Star Trek, Stargate, or similar ilk you are right up my alley. (Bonus points for having actually watched THX 1138). I am a sentimental romantic, and love a good romantic film or story. (Yes, I watch It's a Wonderful Life every year at Christmas). I do believe love exists, because I have experienced it firsthand. Twice, in fact, and they know who they are...or should. I would very much like to experience it again, but I am beginning to wonder about the validity of the emotion. I am a pretty hard-core gamer, and I love my time relaxing(?) with the XBox or PC. I grew up in the world of Dungeons & Dragons, so it was a natural evolution to video games. See, I told you I was a nerd. Sheesh, you actually want to read more of this? I will continue... I have been a bit of a workaholic, being employed in the world of Oil & Gas does that to a fellow. For about 4 years, I worked 60-72 hours a week. Sure, that kind of maniacal slavery generated some very nice paychecks, but my life as a whole suffered greatly. I truly do not want to continue that kind of drudgery, so I switched jobs, and now have more time for finer pursuits. I love to travel, and will do so (work and funds permitting) at the drop of a hat. I enjoy camping and lying in a giant hammock looking at the stars as the campfire crackles. That is very relaxing, and much needed. OK, you really need to contact me if you have read this novella. I am not perfect, but I definitely try to be the best person I am able to be. I truly do wish to enjoy the company of someone special again, cuddling on the couch or in bed watching the Walking Dead or Game of Thrones. Oh, who am I kidding, cuddling in bed only leads to one thing, and that is far more enjoyable with someone than the alternative. Did I mention that a great sense of humor is a must? If you believe that Monty Python was a dude, you may not be the one for me. I don't mean the Adam Sandler or Dumb and Dumber type of comedy either. I don't "do" that type of humor, sorry. I am not really looking for a friends with benefits type of relationship, nor that of a "hookup." It is true I have the libido of a teenager, but there is far more to a relationship than sex. I am attracted to the mind and soul of a woman. Yes, yes I love having my way with a nice body and a great set of...er...a nice round...Anyway, there is more to it than just sex. At least I believe that and I am willing to try to prove it. If you can hold your own in a conversation ranging from string theory to politics, theology to music, film and novel, then I want to meet you without question. Oh, did I mention that I spent 3 years in Culinary Arts training? Yes, I am (or was) a professional chef. So...I have that going for me. OK, this was bloody difficult, but I did it. Thanks for reading it, even if I do not interest you or leave you breathless with your hair a mess and red hand-prints on your... Oh, that's later. If you have managed to read all of this, then by all means, reach out and say hello. |
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