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About wyess
I'm looking for a BDSM play partner willing to form a
strong emotional bond with.
I already have my primary partner -- my
wife of 10+ years. I have a rock solid, open non-monogamous marriage.
She knows everything I do - there are no secrets between us. I tend to develop longish-term playmate friendships with only two or
three people.
I am very much into the psychological domination
aspects of D&S. Role playing is often an important part of my
playtime. I can offer the sub to as much or as little bondage, punishment, or erotic pain as they feel comfortable with. I'm a
good listener and am respectful of what I hear -- its the Dom's duty
since we both aim to have pleasurable experiences. I take the dom role
very seriously, ensuring safety and sanity.
I'm fit and trim and
otherwise fairly average. I'm a down-to-earth, Birkenstock-wearing
vegetarian. Outside the dungeon, I like to entertain friends at home,
go dancing, and garden. I love the outdoors, backpacking, hiking, and
just sitting outside. That's why I always look so disheveled in candid
photos (my apologies).
My Ideal Person:
You will:
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Be a sub with any level of experience. Those with
experience and newbies are welcome. - probably be under the age of 53 and probably you are female; I am very selective about male subs.
- Demand safe and sane play and I will respect you for it.
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Be willing to feel a strong bond between us, but realise that my wife
is my primary partner. You will be willing to from a long(ish) term
friendship.
- Be willing to be trained to be the submissive I want you to be, realising that our bond is one of trust and respect. I'm open to either occasional BDSM play or TPE.
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Realise that I won't make you do something you don't want, but I will
push the limits of what is acceptable to you. You will be willing to
negotiate before your training begins what activities are acceptable
and what are forbidden. You will immediately communicate if you change
you mind about an activity.
- Understand that you will be given discretion outside your training (unless you wish otherwise).
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Accept that, during your training, punishment is necessary for bad
behaviour and rewards are expected for good behaviour. You will to learn
to cherish your rewards and your punishments. Accept that bondage will
also be part of your training.
- Understand that your training is actually designed to provide both (all) of us fun and experiences of pleasure.
- Accept that we are on the Earth to make a difference and that life demands it be lived.
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