Wvcharmxo

What am I seeking?:
A strong, dominant male. No older than 50ish. Someone who can have decent conversation and whom is intelligent. Someone who is preferably a Daddy Dom but who is also stern & strict when needed. Also, someone who isn’t focused solely on sex. Why? Because this lifestyle is about way more then that. I also am not interested in someone who only uses sexual things as punishments. That has never made sense to me. I want a friend, a companion. I need someone I can trust and build a bond with. Once again, I am not looking for a sexual based dynamic. Sure, sex is great and all but that really isn’t what the lifestyle is 100% about. I’m not looking for someone to control sexual aspects of my marriage, I keep the two things separate as best I can. I do good with rules but of course not all sexual rules. I need help remembering to take my meds, do my chores and such.

About me:
32, West Virginia, I tend to identify as a sub/kitten/little. Meaning I kinda wear many hats. I need a Dom who can appreciate all sides of me and not make me shove one of them aside. I’m not abdl at all, that’s not who I am as a little.
I want someone who wants to get to know me as a person, a friend and a sub.

I’m just venting.. but for some reason today is just one of those days I miss having an actual Daddy Dom. Maybe I’m weird but I miss rules and structure. It has made me think a lot about my last Dom and missing him. We still talk sometimes but it’s not like that. We just care about each other. But I just have this void in my heart. I love my husband but nothing about my bond, connection and relationship with him is the same as a D/s dynamic. I don’t just miss the sexual aspect of it, I miss all of it.