I am a very uninhibited, sexual man. And in 2003, after years of curiosity, I decided to explore sex with a man. After some searching, I found a guy who I found very appealing. After about a month of online correspondence, I met him one night at his place of business. I did not know at the time that he was a Dom and a Leatherman. I was really only interested in giving oral. He had asked if I'd receive anal. I told him that I had absolutely no interest in that. He was cool with that, and I met him late one summer night.

He was a very handsome, very persuasive man. And long story short, by the time I left that night, I was addressing him as Master - and I was no longer a 'virgin'. That began an 18-month D/s relationship with him that lasted until he moved to Washington state for a better job. He was very into domination and bondage and discipline. For years, I have tried to find another real Dom, but only found a bunch of clueless, vanilla wannabes. I did meet one more man, serviced him orally, but it was just not the same. I moved from my very small town to where I am now last November. I hope the move will prove to be great thing as far as numbers of Doms.