i am a male subbie who is looking for a mistress.i am not looking for 24/7 just occasional play and relationship.i would like to find a Mistress who can handle a bull whip but not required for i have never expierenced it and i saw one in action and it intrigued me.i have been in training and i am still relatively new to this lifestyle.i miss the sensual play as well as the sadistic play as well.i do play with other Mistresses but no relationship is involved.i do belong to a group who gets together from time to time for scening and a little swinging.