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Here I am! Here is all of me! I will include my wants, my needs to understand, my feelings and my thoughts. Why not? For a male to wish to give up himself totally for another is far to reaching and deep that needs must be met by both parties. Straight talk. Put the EGO away! So much posturing here, so many fakes, so many lies.
A real lifetime journey is founded on truth. There is a certain amount of real living that must be done. Bills have to be paid, people get sick, family issues abound. Let us not be blind to reality. I see this not as a game as so many peole see it is a wanking game. They think that they can hurt anyone they choose. I do not seek to have my heart broken. I do not seek to break anyones heart. Here is what I bring to the table. Well trained in the Market Place tradition. If you don't know what that is read up on it. It is on the internet. I am a gentleman. I love to serve and have been trained in: foot service, personal body slavery, grooming, small household repairs, I write many articles for bdsm sites. I own a business and I am transfering it to e-commerce. I can relocate. Even as a slave, due to health reasons, I do not beleive in cuttings. Group play ONLY with a circle of well known friends. I am not bi, but can be bi-curious if required. Even as a slave, I beleive in knowing what I am getting into, and as an owner you also need to know what you are getting into. This is for a LONG TERM LOVING RELATIONSHIP. I am aware that some Domme's and Masters will say, He is not a slave. Saves dont ask for this or that, or negotiate. I again am giving up everything I know for my Mistress owner. A bargan must be reached and understood. Limitations are respected and both partners need to respect one another also. GET REAL. The more we understand about each other and know about each other better the chance we have to be happy. With a divorce rate of 65% in the USA and the seperation rate of bdsm couples at 75% someone has to get real and smart. Do my homework I must! Lay a strong foundation I will. If you want a robot, a piece of furniture or money, then move on. The risk is high, the investment is intense. This is all real. We do not live in Ancient Rome, Egypt, or Greece or the Old South. There are things to buy, things to do, emotions to care for, places to live, places to work, earning a living, unless your wealthy.Learning how to LOVE one another and respect one another is all part of the real bdsm lifestyle. Don't fall for the, I love you crap and I will do anything for you banter. With a hard penis any man will say anything to get what he wants. Straight talk and honesty, open in the light. When people are so ridigid in their belief system and reason seems far and in between, that is something that should scare any one of us! RUN!! I do not judge the people that want to give up ther lives, their saftey, their money. It's fine with me. I am not at odds with Masters who's egos are out of wack and their slaves laugh at them when they turn their backs. Fine with me too. I do not object when slaves and subs get more then they barganed for in the name of the lifestyle and insanity. Im fine with that also. I am not ok, with giving my health or life away for a hard on , and some cum. Get over it will you! I see many complaints about people here. I wonder if all of us negotiated with one another and talked to one another not at one another, we might have the best bdsm site in the world. Get Real, Find the love within, become whole and I will love you more intensley than you can Immagine. When the light is gone... when he or she has left.... when we are hurt beyond our wildest immaginations, when we give a partner our all and then are kicked aside... we asked ourselves why, Why did this happen? I do not want to have to ask these questions again. Love is the answer here for all of us if we seek it. Understadning opens the gates, and honesty moves us forward. Think about it! It is worth it, becasue you are worth it. wnts2beowned
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