WithNoU

There are certain things I know that I like and certain things I know that I need. I wouldn't go as far as to say that I am a true masochist; however, I do enjoy the mixture of pleasure and pain. I can enjoy sex without it, but why do that when the combo makes it so much better? For me, sex and BDSM are entwined. I know it isn't always sexual for some people...I am not one of those people. I don't play with people that I don't want to sleep with. I'm looking for something long term, a little more permanent. For me, that means we have to click on a level outside of the bedroom. I'd like a relationship with a man that gets me, not just my kinky side. I addition to a good spanking, I enjoy reading, writing, dancing, working out, football, travel, movies, cooking, sewing, talking about anything and everything....can you keep up?