Married male in a vanilla relationship looking for those in a similar circumstance or those who can accept that situation

Being a switch, I can dominate or submit to whomever. I normally would not try to switch in a relationship. It depends on who I meet. I would like to meet someone that shares similar interests. Someone who enjoys exploring new things, sexually.

Being married and on the dating scene for the last few months, I am fully open to a long term friendship. However, I have, and can do playtime stuff. I am a professional type person, have a decent job, and I have responsibilities as a person, so real slave ownership type stuff is impossible. Well, lets face it, I'm 52 yrs old, and I didn't just fall off the slavery boat.

Having said all that, and reading a bit on this site, I bet I am less experienced than I thought. In some of the scenarios I have read about, I would be quite worried, if I didn't somewhat know the person dealing it out. So, if I do happen to meet up with a domme.... please try to take it easy on me the first time out. And stop yelling at me from your profile. That's just nuts.

If I meet up with a sub, know that I do care about them as people. Sure, chastise me for that, but it takes a special type of person to submit. I know that. And I am very experimental.