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If all you've got is a swinging whip and/or swinging dick, keep walking
Local people only, please. I will not respond to messages from people outside of Illinois, Wisconsin or Indiana. Also, I smoke cigarettes.
I AM A SUB. NOT A SLAVE, NOT A DOMME. PLEASE DON'T WRITE IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING OTHER THAN A SUBMISSIVE.
Often a homebody, occasionally adventurous (snicker), a tad socially awkward. I am both a nurturer and a pain in the ass. I love physical touch at both ends of the spectrum. Tender and brutal. I require them in equal measure. If you can't give me both, you can't have either.
When the Universe deems the time appropriate: Ultimately, I'd like a relationship with someone that is honest, kind, compassionate, tender, affectionate, and yes, a badass. A mix of romance, lust, D/s and SM is what appeals to me.
In the right situation, I'm up for a lot of different types of kink and can take quite a bit of pain. It all really depends on my headspace with that person. Some would say that I haven't done much more than scratch the surface in my BDSM activities. Others might say that I've done some extreme things. My answer is yes to both statements. :)
All of that said, I consider very little of what I do and enjoy in this lifestyle roleplay. It is real. It is part of who I am. So, although a lot of what we do is a game, it's not really a game. It involves time, trust and emotions. There are some things I am willing to do casually and just for fun with people I know. And there are many things I'm just not willing to do, given the headspace accessed/created/achieved, outside of the context of an on-going relationship.
I know folks who think very differently about all of this. But, this is me. My boundaries, my limits, my enjoyment, my journey, my life. I'm choosing to be as true to myself as I know how. It's really the only way any of this is meaningful, ya know? |
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