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Female Submissive, 41, Redding, California
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Male Submissive, 48, NE England
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Male Dominant, 58, chariton, Iowa
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About Willingsubforyou
I have been a sub for several years, seen a variety of Doms and have had some wonderful times with them experiencing many different things. But as we all know in this lifestyle there is always more to learn and more to experience.
I am looking only for real time interaction rather than online submission, but I also work full time, so finding time to meet people isn't always easy. It helps therefore, if you live relatively close, so that precious free time isn't taken up mainly by travelling time! So if you do live at the opposite end of the country, perhaps think twice about what may or not be possible.
You should know that I am married, so I am not looking for a new life partner or full time Dom. My marriage isn't perfect - whose is? - but I am not looking to end it, so my search here is entirely separate from that. I therefore need total discretion and no lasting marks left on my body.
What I seek now is somebody local that I can see regularly - perhaps once every month or so, given busy lives and work commitments. I am happy to chat to anyone genuinely interested in sharing the joys of this lifestyle and helping me to grow and perhaps try new things. In return you will find me willing, enthusiastic, keen to learn and unerringly obedient.
I am a large woman, so if you don't like that, feel free not to contact me, and find someone more suitable. Please DON'T message me just to tell me I'm fat. I know I am. Why waste your time and mine?
You should also know that I am no masochist. Whilst I accept that some pain can be part of this experience and even a valuable part of it, I do not actively seek it. So if you consider yourself sadistic and you enjoy giving a lot of pain, then I'm probably not what you're looking for.
What I do like is a deep mental connection with somebody, so it helps if you are intelligent and articulate and enjoy the mental aspects of control and domination. Toys can be fun but what goes on between the minds of two people is far more powerful. On that note, I don't have a great list of likes and dislikes because what works fantastically well with one Dom can be a disaster with another - it all depends on personalities, the dynamic between two people and the situation. |
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Compromise:
Submission is an important part of my life and I assume that Doms feel the same about their Domination. Although I like to do new things, there are some aspects which I’m not interested in and do not want to try. These are called hard limits and I won’t compromise on them.
Similarly there are certain aspects which I am very keen on and don’t want to compromise on those either. As my time to indulge my submission is limited, why would I choose to spend that time with somebody who doesn’t tick enough boxes to give me what I need and what I’m looking for?
So, before you contact me, have a think about what you really want. If you love being sadistic, and if giving extreme pain is one of your major needs, then I’m probably not what you want. Don’t say “It’s OK, we can do other stuff”, because you know you’ll miss it. Why compromise on what you want? Surely it’s better to wait and find someone more suited to you?
Of course I know that nobody here is likely to find someone who ticks all their boxes, so a degree of compromise is inevitable. But if your main love is one of my main hates, then one of us would definitely end up unhappy and dissatisfied! |
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