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Not seeking to meet anyone for a relationship at this time. I am recently out of a relationship and prefer to get to know women on a friends basis first.
In particular I am interested in Female Led Relationships, and female sexual freedom / male devotion as expressed through cuckoldry. I did see a video on The Venus Cuckoldress where she coined the term Female Privilaged Relationship - which I loved because FLR shouldn't mean a bunch of new responsibilities and roles to please her man! I like the idea of the woman setting the pace, and would prefer to see how we worked together in a relationship rather than trying to box things into a set place.
As far as why I find cuckoldry so utterly emotionally gripping, I see it as a truly romantic gift - loving the woman so much that I want her to savor and enjoy her sexuality and sensuality without fear of losing the relationship we have. Yes, it is scary for me (especially that she is likely to develop feelings for her lover). But, by surrendering complete sexual freedom to her I believe the right woman will see me as a priceless person.
If this resonates with you, please send me a message. I like when a woman takes control, and gives me clear direction. I will answer all messages

Most of the time cuckoldry is linked tto Female Led Relationships as an assumed default.? While the cuckolded male?definetely?is in a lowered status within a cuckold dynamic relationship, cuckoldry doesn't automatically mean FLR.

I loved a recent video from Venus Cuckoldress where she (as far as I know) coined an alternative term:?Female Privledged Relationships!? I think this is a good way to express that while in cuckoldry the relationship is not based upon equality, cuckoldry does not mean that the woman has to take on all kinds of new responsibilities connected with true FLR.? So, I think that women that have not considered cuckoldry because they think that the relationship dynamic means they will have a bunch of new stuff to do, the alternative is to embrace the concept that you can have privlidge and only take on new responsibilities that you choose!

Loving cuckoldry as a relationship dynamic is the gift to the woman to explore her sexuality without guilt while her cuckold remains completely dedicated to her.? It can be as romantic as erotic, and the choices are free for the woman to decide.

I understand why a lot of women are extremely suspicious of men that want to be cuckolded.?

I am sure that the immediate thought is that he has an ulterior motive to propose letting her have sex with another man.? The first thought is probably (and fairly) that what her man is up to is setting her up by asking this, and then later using it as an excuse to then demand a pass to have sex with another woman.? The second concern is probably that he isn't attracted to her, and this fear likely sends her into a spiral.


Actual cuckoldry is actually a truly romantic expression in a healthy relationship!? The man is setting aside his male ego and pride, and offering his lady the freedom to explore her sexuality - while he remains totally dedicated to her.? He is utterly opening himself up to his lady, including exposing himself to the fear of her developing feelings for her lover.? But, the gift is a two way gift!? In indulging herself, she is taking the hand of her cuckold and showing that he can trust her love in the deepest of temptations!


If this resonates with you, please send me a PM.? I will answer all messages.

Have just returned to check things here after a lengthy vacation from CM.  Not currently looking to meet anyone, but am happy to message and converse.

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