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| I'd like to make some friends and talk to people - dominant, submissive, switch, whatever. I'm NOT looking for just sex, or for a Master or anything of the sort right now.
I am completely lacking any real experience with this. All I know is what sorts of things turn me on and fill my fantasies. It began in my early teens, when I finally realized that there was, in fact, other people out there who shared my same desires. As I got busier with work and school, I pushed it into the background. Partially because I was sure that I could never find exactly what I was looking for.
Aside from my kinks, I work and go to school full time and am active in campus activist work so I stay pretty busy. I love to read on a variety of topics, fiction as well as non-fiction. I enjoy studying most of the social sciences, languages (Spanish, Korean, and Arabic), music, foreign films, and writing. I'm quite shy, so don't take it personally. I'm also big (I despise the term BBW), but I stay active (yoga, gym, hiking, etc.).
As for what I'm looking for in a dominant partner, should I ever find one? I'm quite opinionated and strong minded in day to day life and would need someone who can appreciate and deal with that. I don't tolerate disrespect just for the sake of being an asshole. Ideally, I'd like to find someone who I'm compatible with, who is around my age (20s, early 30s?), who I can explore with, and who is more into the psychological aspect of dominance/submission - I like some pain and bondage but that shouldn't be the most important part of it. Calling me a slut and smacking me around without any attention paid to the mental dynamics of it doesn't make you a Dom, it just makes you a dick.
*A photo of my face can be sent privately. I just can't risk exposure on here.*
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I almost wish I had a friend or someone I could talk to just to make fun of the people on this site. I mean, really, not to be overly judgmental but some of the profiles on here are absolutely hilarious. |
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| Age: 28 |
| Tecumseh,
Oklahoma |
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