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****Not looking for anything so please don't bother messaging unless you are already a friend. I am only on here to talk to a couple people I know, that's it for now. Thank you for understanding.****
I've thought long and hard and decided that my health issues are too much for me to have a Dom. If I already had one that would be different as he would already know me and may make allowances, but I don't feel up to trying to meet and get to know new people for that purpose at this time. There are too many things going on and it wouldn't be fair to either of us to waste their time.
Where is my daddy? Someone told me to be more welcoming and playful in my greeting. Make you a deal...you be honest and upfront with me and I will be delightful in return.
If you don't control the mind you don't control the body. Tired of men only interested in using the body with no thought for actually trying to understand me and get into my brain. (That doesn't make it submission, that makes it sex and I can get that anytime thanks).
I am a babygirl and a sub with a dash of slave thrown in for good measure. If choose to be Yours I am sweet, obedient (mostly), loving, and snuggly as all get out. I need to be trained because I am new, but I will make You a very happy man as long as You can handle my goofiness. I am funny, intelligent and have degrees in Archaeology and Anthropology. I am not a doormat and can be stubborn and high-spirited (another word for bratty), but that just means I am strong for You. Remember, DOM does not spell god backwards. Having said that, I wear my feelings out in the open and wounds can be raw...I need a Daddy to help me get through it...to say "That's awful. Are you ok? How can I help?" But I will do the same for you!
Most of all my needs of a Dom are as follows; Your touch, Your voice, Your use, Your body, Your intelligence, Your laughter, Your cuddles, Your rules, Your warmth...Your desire and Your attention. I need to MATTER to You. I need You to keep me safe and protected. I want You to be in my mind...to have my heart race and my thighs get wet when I just think about you.
And yes...I DO blush and I DO gigglesnort. If you want to know more send me a message with questions.
*** I will not be your dirty little secret. I am worth more and I know it, so don't try and tell me it's in my best interest! ***
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I am real. My pictures show a short, wide girl. That's me. If I was going to lie I would have made myself look like Angelina Jolie! I will not give you my phone number at first contact. I will not skype on our first chat (usually because it is spur of the moment and being a girl I want to have hair and makeup done the first time you see me.) I am open to meeting for coffee as soon as possible so that we can see if we are a fit. If you are so short-sighted that you pass me over because I won't do any of these things on first contact then it's your loss, not mine, because I am quite wonderful! |
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It's pretty pathetic when you have to offer to block a "dom" because he keeps contacting you forgetting who you are! *shakes my head* |
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Time as I know it
I am not your hun
i am not your baby girl
i am not your little one
i am most definitely not your baby.
Tonight I spent hours deleting
ridding myself of your flirts
of your declarations of how sexy
beautiful
gorgeous
hot I am.
How you want to lick
suck
taste
kiss
touch my various body parts.
How you want me to be yours
and yours
and even yours.
Hours spent wasted...
on top of all the other hours spent wasted...
Reading your words
your flirts
your declarations.
Sometimes even believing them.
But in the end it always comes down
to spending wasting time deleting. |
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To love a Cancer—truly, madly, deeply—takes the vulnerability to discover what it means to be loved whole-heartedly.
In her desire to nurture and give all that she has to improve the world she lives in, she will exhaust herself in the quest to leave things a little better than she found them. Love to a Cancer is the most powerful force in the universe—and she, at her best, is the most skillful wielder of that magical force you will ever find.
Long criticized for their “moodiness,” the important thing to know when loving a Cancer is that she feels everything.
Communication is key if you hope to avoid the misunderstandings that could lead to romantic fallout. A sweet word or thoughtful gesture will have her orbiting the stars, while a thoughtless jab or slighted action threatens to send her spiraling into the “what-did-I-do-to-deserve-this” darkness of doubt.
Because she feels everything, a Cancer often craves alone time, either to be with her thoughts or to rejuvenate her soul from the constant taking in of all that surrounds her.
At times you may be confused by her ability to be equally shy and bold, especially in the bedroom. (Side Note: there is nothing sexier than when she is able to get out of her head and express her unencumbered sexuality.)
Unbeknownst to most is that it takes an incredible amount of work for a true Cancer to break free of the hardened shell that protects her raw emotions. Many a Cancer keeps lovers timidly at bay and only ventures into uncharted waters when it is “safe” to do so because she doesn’t know how to love halfway.
Although she loves being spontaneous, a Cancer abhors a one-night stand because the gift of herself is one she treasures. To feel discarded after a solo encounter (no matter how passionate) can leave her feeling unwanted and unworthy.
As a result of taking everything in, it is vitally important for her to let things out, and as such, a Cancer is often creative and always expressive. Sometimes in words, other times in actions—the fluidity of this water sign lets things pour through her and flow back out again in various forms.
Thoughtfulness characterizes her relationship style, as once in her heart, you are always on her mind. She will give everything she has to you, and in return it takes very little to make her happy. To feel valued, appreciated and secure are among her greatest desires from the one she loves.
Sensitivity to her journey is something Cancer seeks in her lover.
You are not her first, you would be lucky to be her last, and along the way it is important to know that many have hurt her (mainly because she has let them). This is not your fault, but it may come into play from time to time. She is not looking for you to fix her cracks or make her whole again…she just needs to know that she can trust you with her broken parts, as she pieces herself together in an effort to give you all she has.
A Cancer’s past is riddled with unworthy lovers, only because she had not yet learned how incredibly special she is. Once known, rest assured, she will refuse to settle for less, as she has endured many a heartache to get to the place where she now confidently stands.
A Cancer’s greatest gift is her heart—she is loving to a fault, holding on long after others would let go because of that tiny ray of sunshine that promises her there is light beyond the darkness.
What she seeks is stability, though she lives for adventure!
She wants to play and explore and delve into the unknown with someone she is confident will be her safety net—should she come crashing down. Over the years she has taken care of so many. For her future happiness in love, she wants one who is comfortable in their own skin and who doesn’t need her, but to whom she is a joyfully desired addition. She seeks a love with whom she can grow with, not one more person to pick up or pull along.
A well-loved Cancer will give you everything you could possibly want in a relationship, as she has always believed that the fairytale is real. A Princess who often plays the Prince: galloping in to rescue those in distress, falling hard and fast while always believing in the possibility of a happily ever after.
She is a magic mirror of sorts as many find themselves because of the way she sees them. And though she doesn’t view herself as the fairest of them all, rest assured that a Cancer’s love is pure and real and 100 percent genuine. (Sadly, not many people have experienced a love like hers, so most don’t know what to do with it…thus they push away, or worse, take her for granted.)
For the brave soul that is willing to let themselves be loved by big-hearted Cancer, may you see a miracle invisible to others. And may the two of you bask in the euphoric glow that radiates from those who know the uniqueness of writing their own fairytale.ow to love a Cancer...by Betsy Butterick
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how to love a broken girl
How to love a broken girl. How many would benefit from an instruction book for that? Its easy to love the carefree girls, the "normal" girls, the confident girls next door, but what about the broken girls? The girls with fortresses around their heart and shields in their eyes? The girls whose souls have aged beyond their earthly years? The girls with bodies and minds that have survived wars which would break the strongest of men? Sometimes these girls should come with a warning label. The warning pendulum swings both ways. This warning is not only for how you must treat her but for all the ways she will ruin you.
1. You cannot love her gently. She does not realize she deserves to be loved. You must love her with a force that can crush mountains. You must burn her soul so hot with your love that doubt melts away. Your love must be unconditional and you must show her on her very worst days.
2. She doesnt know shes beautiful. She can get compliments all day and she wont believe it. There is a demon on her shoulder whispering that its not true. It takes a dozen compliments to erase one hurtful torment from her past. Shower her with compliments, be her cheerleader, until your words are her heartbeat instead of her doubts.
3. Chase her. I know we often have the attitude of not chasing anyone. I know it is said to be weak if we chase someone who walks away, but we need to see you are weak for us. Sometimes a broken girl needs to see how much you need her. She needs to.see that vulnerability in your eyes to feel ok. We need you to need us.
4. She needs routine. Broken girls over analyze everything. They notice everything, too. Did you stop asking her for pictures after some time passes? Did you stop using a pet name? Every broken pattern to us means the end of the only thing we have ever wanted and it terrifies us.
5. Smother us with affection. Touch us. Kiss us. Touch us some more. Broken girls have not experienced enough positive affection in their life. We will absorb every ounce as a person dying of thirst demands water. You cannot shower us with enough of a good touch.
6. Be honest and keep promises. Broken girls have not dared to dream much. Every vow made to us has been broken. Every promise has been a lie. We would rather you never let a promise escape your lips than have you utter false ones.
7. Prepare to drown. If we let you inside our chaotic soul, you will be immersed in a madness you will not understand. We sometimes walk the balance beam of insanity and sometimes we fall. The biggest warning we should have is this.. if we love you, it is forever. We will love you with a loyalty that will amaze you. We will be committed and our heart will beat your name. While we are still broken we will try to devour all of your pain. We will be perceptive to your wounds and eager to heal your soul. If we love you, please be prepared that we will forever stay.
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