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Hi. I'm wfg. I'm trying out the online dating thing. I'm also not great at writing about myself. I'm confident in a more self-possessed than hail-fellow-well-met way, creative and inventive, sometimes pretty clever, and about as upbeat and enthusiastic as I am acerbic and cynical :-)
So, what am I looking for? Well, here I am, rising 44, good temperament with no vices and sound in wind and limb, and looking for someone to set off on the second half of life's adventures with me. I'm looking for someone that can hold their own intellectually, who is as happy tromping over soggy moorland as out listening to shite goth music or quietly sitting reading, cuddled up on the sofa with tea and the rain lashing the windows.
Actually, the cuddled up on the sofa with books and rain lashing the windows thing is important :-) Connectedness is important to me. I'm not looking for someone to tie up, bash lumps out of, have a quick shag and boom, next conquest please. Equally, I'm not about to insist on a forever commitment over the first cup of coffee.
I don't really want to talk too much about play (I mean, the site is called collarspace, we know why we're here) until I've met you in person. I'm not a "domly dom", for a start. I always feel they think they have something to prove. I do run to the dom side of switchy, but if you're confident and know what you want and how to ask for it then you'll match up with my subby side. Right now I've got back into shibari and really want to get a lot more practice in, if you're game. I like a lot more things, but you'll need to meet up to discuss them. I'm not hugely into taking play outside where it'll spook the vanillas, but when we're out in public you might just get a "look" to remind you that your collar is never really off... ;-)
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