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Dominant Couple, 45, Milford, Ohio
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Male Switch, 53, Detroit area, Michigan
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Dominant Couple, 43, Nashville, Tennessee
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About WickedUncle
Chat and pics dont work on here because CS hates Apple devices.
Early retired professional, who has had many years experience but never on a regular basis due to career commitments. Now spending the bulk of my summer time near Cromer, Norfolk, and wanting to get to grips with the lifestyle on a much more involved basis, in terms of friends and relationships in the BDSM community. I dont like the multiplicity of labels that people use in the lifestyle, as it tends to pigeonhole people. Ive been a daddy to some, a master to others, etc. . Within these roles there is a wide spectrum of behaviours, depending on the interaction between the Dom and the Sub. A dominants responsibility is to nurture, protect and develop the sub in return for this heshe receives their submission. Thats the nutshell, but it encompasses so many variations, e.g. the difference between an independent and confident submissive, and someone only fulfilled by the total surrender of slavery. I prefer the submissive to the slave. You love a kite Because it pulls Weak enough to call you master.... Strong enough to call you fool. Leonard Cohen To give one illustration of my personal attitude Im not a sadist - I get no sexual turn on from inflicting pain. But when it s part of a submissives needs I do it. The arousal comes from witnessing her reaction to that, and the utilisation of my skills to bring about a satisfactory conclusion. I get intense satisfaction and pleasure from that.
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As many people will have realised, very many of the subs on here have “issues” due to unfortunate and abusive experiences in their past.
As a responsible dominant you do your best to try and help them overcome those issues.
Sometimes, sadly, it’s to no avail.
Some things run too deep. One can spend many months trying to help and support someone you care about, but in the end you can’t change them - they can only change themselves.
There‘s the old cynical “3 golden rules” :
Never piss INTO the wind
Never play poker with a man whose nickname is “Doc”
And never sleep with a woman who has more troubles than yourself....
While its a mildly amusing saying, there are some of us who just can’t walk away while there might be a chance of making things better.
Unfortunately the chance can often be a slim one, despite all your effort.
”A sadder and a wiser man, He rose the morrow morn...” |
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Love it:
To "Damselsub":
Welcome. Tell me about your interests.
And the reply?
As follows....
"At the moment my main interest is in avoiding idiots like you"
Well there we go, dear reader - obviously another intellectual who's strayed on this site by mistake..... |
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Well.
Rather a strange communication from a young lady - unsolicited I think, as I don't recall messaging her.....( to be honest I might have, but if I did it was deleted )
"Do you not have any friends? You are on this site constantly, day and night, 7 days a week. Do yourself a favour, turn off your computer, get out and go and meet some real people. I find it very sad the way you seem to be wasting your life the way you are. I know you will probably come back with some smart remark, or telling me to fuck off. Don't bother, I'll only delete it unread. Good luck."
Now, dear reader - several points spring to mind here....
If I was on this site constantly, in the manner suggested, the only way the lady could know this for certain would be if she was doing the same, surely?
And even if it was true, why could it possibly be of such interest to her? Does she somehow resent my presence and feel somehow threatened by it to such an extent that she sends me that?
How does she know I'm wasting my life? 
Never occurred to her I might be keeping up with past friends and acquaintances and making new ones? Lol.
Of course what I DONT do is waste MY life heckling complete strangers......
Anyway Ms TesVan1. My sympathies that you are obviously frustrated by your lack of success on here to the extent of being envious of mine. Poor girl  |
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And another new message from another new profile.
You have to wonder - don't the nurses monitor his internet access when they're giving him his medication?
However he is becoming repetitive.
It'll be "deleted unread" from now on. |
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And he's back. This time as "collartofityou". Then makes the profile inactive ( again) to hide after ranting obscenities. Lol.
You got to ask - how could any sub resist his charm and erudition? |
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Well!!!
I have finally made it to superstar status on CS!
The deranged guy who's been harassing several subs on here, with multiple profiles, has paid me the highest accolade possible - after contacting me and raving ( to no avail - he's not very bright) - he's made up a fake profile about me too!! Yay!!
Same name, but he's put NUT added on.
I would encourage you all to contact him. Really! Then you can get a flavour of how constant rejection has warped his feeble intellects.
After a few exchanged messages you might even get an inkling of why so many subs have said "no thanks".
Keep it to a few. More than that, and the little voices in his head take him over..... :-) |
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