Wickedpixikitten


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	About Wickedpixikitten I began my journey in the BDSM lifestyle in 1989 with my highschool sweetheart fumbling around in the dark going off our instincts and desires. When we parted ways 5yrs later he said he could never have that kind of relationship with anyone else. I knew in my core that I didnt want any other kind of relationship ever again. I tried a vanilla marriage but I did continue my studies when the internet came out. I found acmentor online. My husband agreed to explore with me but it was only so he could abuse me and call me a freak of nature. We were divorced 5yrs after we were married and had spent a solid half that time or more separated. I am a woman that knows who she is, what she is, what she wants, needs, deserves. I am flawed and human just like all of you out there. But I am human, not a piece of clay, or a doormat, or an animal. I am a daughter, sister, mother, friend, lover, neighbor and a whole lot more. I need to feel wanted as much as I need to know Im loved as much as I need to be trained. I have only been collared ONCE in all my time in this life. I will not kneel to just anyone. My submission is not candy to be doled to like candy from a pez disenser. I am not a slave so dont expect me behave like one. Be the reed in the wind for the mighty oak will fall. Thank you for visiting my profile, alicekotele

Maybe its my autism, but I don't understand why all these "dominant" men (yes I lower cased that intentionally) who are married are out here looking for subs and/or slaves and then stating their wives do not know. Using the excuse that their wives (and girlfriends for men in non marital committed relationships) aren't meeting their needs and "wouldn't understand". As if that somehow justifies cheating because that IS exactly what you are doing, soliciting to cheat on your partner who consented to a MONOGAMOUS relationship! ALL parties should be consensual when it comes to any kind if relationship or sexual activity or commitment. And if you're on here seeking a dynamic that's exactly what you're asking for, a commitment! It goes against everything the lifestyle stands for.. HONESTY, TRUST, LOYALTY, COMMUNICATION, COMMITMENT I'm NOT sorry to say this but if you're a cheating husband too weak to either talk to your wife about your needs, get marriage counseling to help your marriage, or get a divorce so you are available to pursue an HONEST and fulfilling lifestyle relationship because that's what you claim to need, then you aren't really a Dominant MAN. You're just a narcissistic user boy pretending to be something he's not, toying with the emotions of others to fill the void in his own soul, playing at things he doesn't truly understand! That is all.

My Bathtub Theory Regarding the Resource Pool for people with Autism and other Emotionally Challenging Conditions. So I recently learned that the "Spoon Theory" is the generally accepted way of explaining what its like for Autistic people as well as those with physically debilitating illnesses to get through their day. I had never heard of that till recently. I had come up with my own "Bathtub Theory" before learning about the spoons. I explain it like a bathtub of water with a leaky plug. I have severe anxiety so that drains my resources constantly, the water. The more that is demanded of me the more resources, water, is drained away. But if I'm allowed to rest and refocus I can turn the faucet back on to refill the tub some more. If I'm not allowed to rest and refocus the tub just keeps draining till its almost empty at which point I start to panic and melt down. When the tub is empty I completely shut down. When I've had sufficient time to rest I'm able to replenish my resources by turning the faucet back on and refilling the tub. Now you can take this metaphor a step farther by adding other people's negativity contaminating the water, making it dirty and herder to use as a resource. My day has been colored by the murk of negativity and ugliness now in my resource pool pervading my thoughts and causing the leak to worsen and the water to drain faster. Hence the need to be mindful of the circles we keep. I can see how the Spoon Theory is applicable for the user in the article here with lupus or with other physically debilitating conditions.. But I disagree with its use for autism. Or at least for HFA, same with the Jenga theory. There's no room for replenishment and you're guaranteed to fail by the end of the day with these as understandings. With my bathtub theory it allows for periods of rest and replenishment to "refill the bathtub" which I would venture to guess that most of us learn how to do as we become adults or during adulthood. We each may have our own way of doing this from quiet time alone, taking a nap, listening to music, drawing, coloring, reading, etc. But my point is we DO do this in our fashions as adults because we have learned how to. It's no longer completely outside of our control anymore like the spoons and pain of a physically debilitating condition are. We're talking about a resource pool for our emotional tolerances which includes overstimulation, feeling overwhelmed, sensory needs, and executive higher functions, not JUST anxiety. Does that make sense? The story behind The Spoon Theory: butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Pet
100% Slave
100% Masochist
100% Primal (Prey)
100% Rope bunny
96% Submissive
85% Non-monogamist
82% Boy/Girl
78% Owner
68% Exhibitionist
59% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
52% Voyeur
51% Degrader
51% Brat
47% Ageplayer
42% Daddy/Mommy
39% Switch
39% Degradee
21% Master/Mistress
9% Rigger
2% Dominant
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Vanilla

I'm currently exploring pet play and age play.

I was recently reminded of this song that speaks to me so much from 2002.

"Mad World"
Gary Jules, Michael Andres

All around me are familiar faces
Worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for their daily races
Going nowhere, going nowhere
Their tears are filling up their glasses
No expression, no expression
Hide my head, I want to drown my sorrow
No tomorrow, no tomorrow

And I find it kinda funny, I find it kinda sad
The dreams in which I'm dying are the best I've ever had
I find it hard to tell you, I find it heard to take
When people run in circles it's a very very
Mad world, mad world

Children waiting for the day, they feel good
Happy birthday, happy birthday
Made to feel the way that every child should
Sit and listen, sit and listen
Went to school and I was very nervous
No one knew me, no one knew me
Hello teacher, tell me what's my lesson
Look right through me, look right through me

And I find it kinda funny, I find it kinda sad
The dreams in which I'm dying are the best I've ever had
I find it hard to tell you, I find it hard to take
When people run in circles it's a very very
Mad world, mad world
Enlarge your world
Mad world

Songwriters: Roland Orzabal
Mad World lyrics copyright BMG Rights Management US, LLC

This was originally written as a kik message and I decided it would make a good journal entry after the fact. Dear (former Master) John The best thing I can do for myself, the healthiest thing I can do is block you because you're obviously taking some sick pleasure in just ignoring me and crushing my heart. I loved you. All of my friends are telling to just get over it and move on as if my feelings aren't valid. That tells me I should just stuff them down deep inside and not allow myself to express them or feel them but I know from past experience that's not healthy. To do so would be for the benefit of others so they would not feel uncomfortable in the presence of my pain. Since when must we live our lives so wholey and completely for the benefit and comfort of everyone else around us? I know you'll never read this so it doesn't matter what I have to say. But even as I write this diatribe I realize that I am better off without the likes of someone like you who would treat me the way you have. Who would punish when angry and for the wrong reasons. Who would not put a set time limit on how long punishment would last. Who does not have the self control and maturity to not be petty and vindictive. I hope you know you were honestly loved and that you inspired me and taught me so much about muself. I truly am grateful for the last 9 months, good and bad. Despite the heartbreak, pain, and suffering I have gone through after your decision to abandon me at the very start of the new year, I know I have the capacity to one day forgive you. That day is not today. Nor do I wish you to rot in hell either. I am much more at peace with myself now than I was when I started writing this. Thank you for everything, and I mean everything you taught me about myself and inspired within me. (Never again yours) alice

I deleted my most recent journal entry out of pain and anger. It was a notation as to how happy I was to be reunited with my former Master who had mysteriously vanished a couple months prior. In the end I was played for a fool as he did the same thing to me again. So if you think I'm self absorbed and need to get over it or that I'm emotionally unavailable or don't trust enough... I have 3 things to say to you.... My feelings are valid. I need time to heal. Courtesy is given, trust is earned. This was VERY recent that this occurred, as in 2018 and since this is January 16th, if you have any empathy at all, you can imagine how raw my I might feel. I am not rushing into looking for a play partner. I am not rushing into looking for a new dynamic. I am not rushing into looking for anything. If you can't respect that then you and I will never be compatible. I am just looking for new friends, preferably local to West Central Florida, to hang out with and maybe eventually see where it goes. However I am always open making friends all over the country and world. I do have a strong personality so do not expect some meek, cowering, sniveling, little doormat!

I have worked the last month on updating and upgrading the Limits List & Interest Survey I created more than a decade ago to make it current for contemporary use. This is an EXTREMELY comprehensive list. The most comprehensive I have ever seen, if I do say so myself. That is the goal, to make it as comprehensive of a tool for lifestyle us possible. Any and all constructive input is welcome. Please feel free to view, copy, print, paste in to Excel or other spreadsheet, and use as freely as you desire for as long as you desire!

View only Link to Google Docs original document:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1_0SkBuLDwMv…

Basic Red Flags of a Fake Dom/me

A fake Dom/Domme is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy lay. They aren’t actually interested in being part of dynamic and will often leave the submissive mentally and/or physically abused.

They skip to talking about play or sex almost immediately.

They jump right to wanting naked photos before take any real time to get to know the submissive.

They immediately require the submissive call them Sir/Ma’am, Master/Mistress, Daddy/Mommy.

They exaggerate their experience, example: a 25 year old Dominant can’t have 10 years of experience in the lifestyle.

They immediately try to be Dominant without a dynamic or relationship being established.

They won’t meet in public.

They don’t give any important contact information, example: phone number, full name, address, email etc. Preferring to use texting/photo/video sharing apps such as Kik or Skype exclusively.

They don’t allow safewords.

They try to push an submissive’s hard limits without the submissive’s permission.

They may threaten violence/punishment if the submissive’s doesn’t listen to them.

If an submissive’s feels afraid of them, that is a huge sign. Trust is a big part in any dynamic.

They may try to make a submissive feel ugly and unwanted.

They ignore the submissive’s needs.

If a submissive feels used (and not in the kink way) or raped, that’s a big warning sign.

They guilt the submissive into doing things for them.

They may give expensive gifts, or take the submissive on an expensive date to get the submissive to do what they want them to do.

They don’t do aftercare.

They may leave a submissive feeling abandoned if They don’t think the submissive submitted to them sufficiently.

*Not every submissive’s list of red flags and warning signs will be the same. This is just a basic list for the novice to watch out for. If your gut says the person is a fake or an abuser, your gut may well be right, listen to it!

Your comments/suggestions are very much encouraged and appreciated! If I missed something please feel free to let me know. I want this work to be as comprehensive as possible!

View Only Link to Original Document for your convenience to print/use:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/12OlW2ttgtv_E_Zt…

I do not have yahoo chat.
I do not give out my facebook.
I do not have hangouts.
I do not give out my cell number very quickly.

I have kik and whatsapp and skype and that's it.

The beautiful art of pre-care, during- care and after-care. By Jessi Foo Foo Aftercare is one of the most important aspects of BDSM. It signifies the end of a scene. Shortly after the crack! Of the bullwhip, the smack of the hand or paddle and sometimes the pleasure cry of a lucky submissive or bottom pierces the solemn ambiance of a dungeon or residence. Yum! The most important aspect of the scene is when a Dominant or top reassures His/Her submissive or bottom. An act of how much they are appreciated, takes place. But after so many different types of interaction, giving a snuggle or water is often the norm to go by. But is it what's needed? Let me throw a wrench inside every kinkster?s gears as I go in deep inside the beautiful, bonding, and caring practice of well...aftercare! Allow me to reintroduce the concept, explore different types, and literally shock you as I expose the shocking truth that in actuality, aftercare begins hours and sometimes days before that first lick of the whip. Ok munchikuns, buckle up, it's going to be a bumpy ride! Ok let's start by defining the concept... Aftercare: Aftercare refers specifically to the attention given to a partner (usually the bottom) at the end of a scene. Aftercare often includes the Top utilizing various pampering techniques on the Bottom in an effort to provide comfort to everyone after having an intense experience that can leave an individual, top or bottom, in a vulnerable state; but this is not always the case. Scening is a rollercoaster of emotions, feelings, squirms, moans, etc, all caused by chemical reactions, endorphins and adrenaline are often the determining chemicals in play during play. lol But what exactly happens to all those bundles of yumminess? Well, the body slowly releases those chemicals over the next couple of days; I some cases lasting over a week. Some crazy shit isnt it? If you have not guess it by this point, that's what we call subdrop. In my opinion, that's what nightmares about life sucking hairy balls are made of. Although there is very little to prevent dropping, there are many ways we can prepare in order to give the best aftercare possible. I am a firm believer in the ?7 P?s?... in fact, that's the way I practice BDSM. What's the ?7 P?s?? Proper Planning and Preparation, Prevents Piss Poor Performance. First step is to discuss aftercare during pre-negotiations. That's right munchikuns, during pre negotiations. I personally have the tendency to start discussing aftercare a few days prior the actual scene; not only my aftercare but my top?s aftercare as well. (The person who is on the giving end needs aftercare as well) But that is something I will elaborate further down the line. Around this time, limits and all sorts of yumminess is being discussed. That is an excellent time to talk about it. I have been told that I am a very heavy bottom. For all those who are new to the lifestyle, what that means pretty much is.. ?this brat can take a serious amount of yumminess?. lol I am a heavy masochist. I have never safeworded out of a impact scene. Not because I am tough or anything like that; it's because I get so consumed by the sensations and pleasure, that I turn everything and anything off... Including the person topping, the impacts, voices etc. I'm just gone fishing. It's like a deeper subspace, also known as bottom space; a deep trance of some sort for all those who don't know what sub/bottom space is. But in just in case, here is the fancy definition: sub/bottom space: Subspace is the altered psychological state of being that is often represented by actions, feelings, thoughts and images brought on by adrenaline and endorphin waves and spikes that may occur during a scene. Source: Bdsm wiki. The thing is that it's terribly dangerous because unless you know how to look for the signs,it could be interpreted as me being a brat (could you believe that?). It's as if that fresh gash on my back dripping blood does not face me; My mind has turned everything off. The thing is that type of reaction could unintentionally challenge the person topping me and they may think: ?this bitch is going to get it now!? Thank goodness Mommy is my proxy, during a scene. She has the authority to safeword on my behalf, because if you wait for me to do so... that just won't happen. Imagine how detrimental that could be for my top if they don't know what type of aftercare I need? Example... I am diabetic, also I have been recently diagnosed with a chronic condition. Imagine if I get a sugar drop, or my nerves betray me and legs give out. Those two situations could be addressed immediately without having to call emergency services or having to give a shitload of explanations, just by having something that would help with the sugar levels and having a piece of furniture close by for me to rest if I need to. In essence being prepared for aftercare. I try to be as detailed as possible in expressing my needs. Snuggles, soft blanket, first aid, lollipops, water, stuffy, baby lotion, Mommy's boobies, snacks etc, are always accessible when I scene. The moment the scene ends, I need to be brought back from orbit. And all those things in Mommy's hands are the ways I am reassured, comforted, and soothed back to normal. Or I'm in my case, as close as it could be. Some people prefer other types. But how will you know, if those things were not discussed prior the scene? Please make it a habit! Also make it a habit of asking after the scene is over if the bottom needs anything different than those things discussed during pre negotiations. You'll be surprised. Often my needs change during a scene. I might need more water, less sugar, more snuggles, a muscle rub, etc. Sometimes I just don't want anything because I might feel overwhelmed by my environment, but that's just one example. It's every person?s responsibility to communicate their needs regardless of the role they take on. That is just being a responsible kinkster! And I cannot emphasize enough the importance of the 7 P?s.. An important aspect is when the after-care continues.When a diligent top, Dom or whatever the case might be, asks if they could follow up with the bottom the day after and a few days after that. I give so much respect to those that have those yummies. My God! That just turns me into a glittery pile of unicorn melty mess. To me, that's the maximum expression of representing their role; it's like if Bruce Lee and Chuck Norris had a son together who rides around sitting in the back of a fire spitting T-Rex swinging fire floggers, type of mythological kickass. Don't judge me goddamnit!! I am a brat with an overactive imagination. :) The reason why that's soo awesome it's because that person understands that not everyone drops immediately or the day after. As I previously stated, sometimes it takes up to a week for the symptoms to show. Now my greedy munchikuns on the receiving end... You are next! That person who has just given you a shitload of yummies needs after-care as well. Why ? Because I said so goddamnit! Roflmao just kidding.. The person who just topped has gone through a different frame of mind. It's called Dom or Top space. Dom/Top space. Tops that experience this phenomenon tend to report more of an energy high indicating greater adrenaline spikes than bottoms who report great mental and emotional highs consistent with greater endorphin spikes. Source: BDSM wiki. So what can I do to help? Well munchikun, put those pretty little lips and hands to work! You perv, not that way! At least not yet, without consent or previously discussed ;-) Positive reinforcement is one of the best ways you could give that person aftercare. Along with a massage or sexual release (that's when you put those lips to work) but also you can use them to negotiate aftercare. Dominants will always be Dominants. One of the most beautiful things they do is caring for us. After a scene they might be more attentive to their sub or bottom, allowing them to call you the next day or to provide you with aftercare is a form of positive reinforcement. They are releasing their yumminess a lot differently than you are. The way it usually goes, not in all cases of course, is they allow themselves to drop once they feel you are ok or you no longer need aftercare. They tend to seclude themselves and that's ok, just let them know you are there for them. I cannot express enough how important positive reinforcement is prior and during Dom drop. I have made it a habit to thank my Dom/Top after the scene. Also, the next day during review of the scene, I am always eager to let them know what I enjoyed the most, how good it felt and how good they are and that's prior to bringing up anything I would like differently during the next scene. And please munchikuns if you are going to suggest anything, please do so in a sensitive and respectful way. Care is one of those topics I could spend days writing about; not only because my studies have told me so, but because I am a witness of the consequences of not doing aftercare or any type of care at all. As I have mentioned before, very early in my journey through this beautiful lifestyle that I have come to love, I was severely abused by a predatory dominant. After a brutal first scene ever, where severe pain was given to me without consent, negotiation, or safewords, and my hard limits were used to discipline me. My aftercare was to be left alone inside a room, with the words. ?clean the toys and put them back in my backpack? That along with everything else threw me into a state of despair, seventy plus hours without sleep, and having constant panic attacks. I am thankful because I had wonderful people supporting me. Without them, I wouldn't had become the person that I am today. Take your time, enjoy the scene, and allow yourselves to let someone care for you afterwards, because if they are willing to give it to you, it's because they CARE.. With shitloads of luv...

The last 6 months have had their highs and lows, their very highs and very lows, and even desperate times. I always managed to find a balance in between though. It's called life, and it happens, frequently aspects of it are unforseen and considered out of our control. Whatever the case, it is our responses that define us to others and our reactions that define us to ourselves. For all the dreams of pleasure slavery and servitude, and even captivity, in my childhood youth... I never, as an adult, believed that I would truly find myself on that path. I don't think I really understood what it meant, and I'm sure it means something different for every person who walks this path. But it was always just a fantasy... one that would "some day" be fulfilled "eventually" for the "right Dom" in the "right time"... never truly concrete... merely an abstract that didn't understand the meaning of but still inexplicably yearned for somehow. What I didn't understand is that I needed to be ready to embark on such a journey. For journey it is, one fought with anxious desire and nervous uncertainty, choices and mistakes, punishments and rewards, structure and guidance, loyalty, devotion, and love. Now I find myself taking my first steps down that road of my own volition, without being asked or ordered or expected, but by choice. I have only been happier when my children were born. I am standing at the brink of all my childhood dreams coming true.

I found this on someone's journal entries here and find it worthy of sharing just as they found it elsewhere and found it worthy of sharing.
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I found this on that OTHER site and thought it was very worth sharing.

The Myths of BDSM- (DominantMan78's Writing)

1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn't love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your past experiences you think that you deserve to be beaten, degraded, used and treated badly by others.

2. If you're a dominant person you're an egotistical maniac full of yourself. You're vain, self-admiring, arrogant, conceited, pompous and generally have too high a concept of yourself.

3. If you're a submissive person you're a doormat, a pushover, a weak and feeble person that doesn't know how to stand up for himself, have huge self-esteem issues and generally have too low a concept of yourself.

4. You're uncaring, unloving and immature. You are unsuitable for looking after children, elderly, people with learning difficulties or vulnerable populations in general.

5. Dominance is internalized hatred for women/men, etc.

6. Submission is internalized hatred for yourself.

7. Quite simply, there's something wrong with you. A healthy, normal person wouldn't like this kind of stuff.

8. You're incapable of professional responsibility and social justice. If you are dominant you'd want to dominate everybody around you and you'll be looking to abuse other people. If you're submissive, you'll submit to anybody and you won't have the strength of character to stand up for what is right.

9. The best way to get a submissive's attention is to start trying to dominate her in subtle or not so subtle ways from the start. No need to have an open and honest conversation about it first. Likewise, if you act all submissive and fragile you'll attract a quality dominant.

I got asked recently what my goals and wishes are. This was my answer. It poured out of me in an intense emotional moment. "My goal is raise my child right. Intelligently, with a strong character, to not live in fear of those who wish to do harm in the world but to live in joy despite them, to understand and employ the concepts of common courtesy and the Golden Rule. To stand up for themself but also know when to pick your battles. This probably qualifies as a goal and wish lol, but I seek my last Dom who might eventually become my husband and perhaps even my Master some day. Who will accept and love my children, my son especially as he's still so young and needs a father figure in his life. I wish to be a good person, a good mother, soon to be grandmother, and a good girl, sub, wife, and eventual slave to He who will someday possess the gift that I am. I wish to be not afraid to trust with my heart. To feel free to be devoted utterly without fear or worry. To bear His mark upon my flesh and know in the deepest parts of my soul that He is mine as much as I am His. I know I cannot find that in the vanilla world." I hate it when I get all emotional. I feel out of control. I don't like feeling that way. I got asked what my goals and wishes are and my answer just poured out of me till I was in tears. Fuck me, I hate that shit! I feel as if I should be in more control than that mewling, meek, weak bull shit. That's the real me that I try so hard to hide and protect from the rest of the world. I'm an intense creature and most find that hard to handle to my experience. I'm like the raging inferno that lays hidden within a tiny ember, waiting for the right breeze to come and fan my spark so that I might be freed and consume the world around me in my blazing light and insatiable hunger, searing any who are unprepared and dare to get to close. My best friend in college used to tell me I was a Phoenix. I burn hot, I burn hard, I burn out, then I rekindle and burn again.

OMG for those fucktards to stupid to understand... relocating doesn't necessarily mean out of state!!!! Geezes!!! Grow a brain and stop assuming you know everything, especially when you can't be bothered to READ!!!

Conversations are two way streets. It is not solely up to the sub to hold up the interesting side of the conversation. And just because there's a delay in a response that you think is inappropriately long for the length of the response received doesn't mean I'm "a player in multiple conversations just trying to get whatever I can"!!!! I'm a single mother, maybe, just maybe, I was taking care of my kid for a minute! But no some assholes are too self involved and self righteous to even consider THAT!!! Don't be a fucktard.

Is it just me or is having a fake photo on your profile the same thing as false advertising? Bait and Switch even?!? I get it that you folks want to be discreet about your identities, but COME ON! When the the image you choose doesn't even resemble you in ANY way and you make no mention in your profile whatsoever that it's not really you... that's just fucked up. Why not try using a nature scene? An industrial scene? Your favorite comic book character? Your own photo with half your face or all your face cropped out? Or no photo at all? That's the more HONEST route to go! Anything less is just bait and switch, false advertising people!

I am so tired of submissives messaging me offering to serve me. LEARN TO READ PEOPLE! Does my profile REALLY sound like someone who wants to be your Dom, Mommy, or Mistress?????? Now there should be no question at all!!! I'm NOT interested in having a sub or hurting another sub. Don't bother me with that foolishness. If you want a Dom, find a fucking Dom ffs!! This has gotten rediculous and totally out of control.

Innocent Enough

Their relationship had begun innocently enough. They were both members of a popular website geared toward helping people with fetishes and alternative lifestyles to find like-minded people, as well as forums and events. She was an exhibitionist as well as a submissive, and used the site as her audience. She posted hundreds of photos of herself in a variety of manners of exposure, but also of her artwork and photography. Posted for people to creep through for their pleasure. Her profile photo was taken at Halloween when she had dressed as a black and white cat, complete with fuzzy cat ears and a bowtie.That was kind of her thing, sharing photos to turn men on. She rarely met anyone from the site. She hadn’t found anyone who seemed worthwhile to meet in person.

One of her images had caught His attention so He decided to flip through them all. He was mightily impressed with her uninhibited sharing of herself. This made her all the more beautiful to Him. He sent her an email through the site, making first contact with her, just to tell her what a delicious submissive she was. It didn’t take long before they began to exchange messages on a regular basis. He began to call her His “kitten” in these messages, He was always so attentive and never missed a day, sometimes sending multiple messages back and forth in a single day. Weeks went by, but they never seemed to be able to catch each other online at the same time.

Until one day, they were both logged in at the same time and the conversation suddenly became real. As if like magic, He drew her submission out of her, even in these written messages. She found herself blushing and compelled to lower her eyes even though she was only typing to Him. Her honesty and transparency were like an aphrodisiac to Him, her permission.

“If I were there, with you now, I would bend you over my knee and spank that wonderful pale ass of yours.” He told her.

She thought she was being cute when she replied sassily, “I would count each smack and beg for the next until You are satisfied with my purrs and whimpers and how wet my pussy is.”

He was very pleased with her response and told her that she was to sit in His lap with her thighs spread wide so that He would have full access to His kitten. To bite the back of her neck and growl to her, “it might be on your body but it belongs to me. I will make sure you always feel like you belong to me, my delicious submissive girl, my kitten”.

Her body responded to these digital words quite unexpectedly… a shiver ran down her spine even as her nipples tightened and hardened to marbles. She could feel her panties suddenly damp between her thighs. Her body quivered almost as if he HAD touched her! Now suddenly she was His kitten in heat! He had seduced her body through her mind from a thousand miles away without even the sound of His voice.

“Your pussy belongs to me, doesn’t it my kitten?” He asked her.

“Yes Sir,” she answered shyly.

“Your pleasure belongs to me, doesn’t it kitten?” He asked.

“Oh, yes Sir,” she typed, breathless.

“You may touch yourself as much and as often as you wish, kitten, but your pleasure is Mine. You are not to orgasm without my permission.” He wrote to her.

This was so hot to her. Nearly panting with her arousal, she wrote back, “My pleasure belongs to you. Yours to give and deny as it pleases You, Sir.”

“That’s my good girl.” He replied.

Her longing was now turned into a luxurious thing because it pleased Him that she would not touch herself without His permission. She was His “good girl”. Being called a ‘good girl’ had always had a singularly arousing effect on her. It told her that she was being found pleasing and desirable. Her primary goal as a submissive.

The next morning she found this message waiting for her when she checked her email on the site, eager to hear from Him again. He had left one for her after she fell asleep the night before, “I know that I cannot satisfy all of my kitten’s needs from so far away. You have such a hungry pussy too. I want you to find men to fuck My pussy. Will you do that for Me, kitten? You will ask for permission to fuck when you find men you want. If I do not respond within 30 minutes, the answer is an automatic yes. I want my pussy used as much as possible. You will report back to me in great detail what happened after every time you have my pussy used. Do you understand?”

Her cheeks flushed with excitement when she read the message. He WANTED her to fuck other men! He wanted her to be used by other men as much as possible… And he WANTED all the dirty little details too! She found that so hot she couldn’t put words to it right away.

Finally she answered, “Yes Sir, I understand.”

It didn’t take long before he replied, “What do you understand my kitten? Tell me what your orders are.”

“I am to find as many as men as possible to fuck Your pussy, Sir, and report back all the dirty little details of each encounter.” She answered Him, thankful that he couldn’t see her face and how deeply crimson she was blushing as she wrote.

His response included more orders, “Get photos and videos of my pussy being used whenever possible too. I want to SEE my hungry pussy being used and fed, my kitten pleasured, in my absence. Always make sure you are safe though kitten. I don’t want you taking too many undue risks.”

She couldn’t believe what she was reading. Was He serious? Of course He was or He wouldn’t have said it! “Yes Sir, I understand. I am to obtain permission to orgasm and to have sex. I am to have Your pussy used as much as possible while staying safe. I am to obtain photo and video evidence, whenever possible, of the use of Your pussy and to report back to You in great detail after every encounter.”

“That’s a good girl, kitten.” He responded. “Now, get to work finding men you desire to fuck My pussy!”

“Yes Sir!” she wrote, already extremely aroused by the very idea of what He was asking her to do.

an original work by WickedPixikitten
AKA alice kotele

I can't believe I have to even say this! But for those of you too stupid to understand the "I'm a Goddess on my knees" in my profile is a musical reference, Meredith Brooks "I'm a Bitch", as well as a metaphysical reference to the goddess inside every woman (and God inside every man). I won't explain it again as I just had some asshole try to rip into me for being a narcissistic megalomaniac with the "audacity" to call myself submissive! In my fury and disgust at such judgmentalNess and wanton ignorance, I'm sure my explanation could have been more eloquent but he'll just have to suck it up, buttercup. Perhaps when I've calmed down and have the inclination to enlighten the mundane I might. But the idea is that the RIGHT people will understand. If you don't, you're not.

Why does it seem every one mistakes good manners for reciprocated interest?

I like to tease shooting pool...

I'm a slut and a bit of an exhibitionist. I love to wear a skirt that seems reasonable when standing and sitting but barely covers my ass when I bend over and love to go to shoot pool in it. Wearing tight lacey panties wedged up over my ass and a blouse that hangs to give a nice view when I'm taking my shot. Swaying my hips side to side with a stance that's probably just a little too wide... visual tease bent over the table with the long pool que in my hands moving back and forth, licking my lips as I focus and biting down on my lower lip just before I make my shot, thrusting the que hard in my hands. Jumping up and down with excitement when I sink the balls I was aiming for into the holes. Big tits bouncing.

It seems virtually every Dom's profile on here complains about there not being any "real subs" on here. Hell I've been accused of "claiming" to be a sub simply because I put my CHILD first! This kind of thing naseates me. I'm not saying there aren't pretenders out there but that doesn't automatically mean EVER ONE listed as a sub is a fraud. Every sub is different just like every Dom is different. The frauds are the ones who don't recognize that fact of reality. Get your heads out of your asses and back into the real world where no 2 people are the same. Every sub's expression of her submission is unique to her. Same as with every Dom's expression of His/Her control.

Notes for a story scene. Real life inspiration to be used in erotic scene writting later. He decided he wanted to see me cumming over and over again stead of tormenting me into begging to be fucked like I had asked for. He was quite enthusiastic about it too. I brought some toys and he didn't hesitate to use them on me. He fucked me with my 3 pronged vibrator good and hard for a long time, till I was good and soaked front to back. Then he used his hands on me for awhile, seeming to revel in my drenched pussy. Finally he went down on me, licking and sucking at my clit. When he knelt up to give his arms and a brief respite I pulled his cock into my mouth. He had to pull away abruptly because he was going to cum. I was too enthusiastic. Lol I rolled over to get a drink and he took advantage of my position, with my knees bent on my side up on one elbow, and slid his fingers right back into my pussy and worked me some more. I got up on my knees to drink some more, which is when he slipped a finger in my ass and worked me some more. He tried to fuck me in the ass but he was just too thick. I couldn't take much of him before it hurt in a bad way. Change of condom and then he stuffed his cock into my pussy and a finger in my ass and pounded away. He shifted his position, grabbed ahold of my hips with both hands and slammed his cock into me over and over again. Then he changed position again and spread my knees, kneeling between mine began to fuck me with even more gusto. I could hear him grunting and knew he was close as I clenched around him, squeezing his cock with my pussy at every thrust. Then he exclaimed he was cumming 4 or 5 times as he thrust hard and fast into me before collapsing onto my back huffing and puffing.

My preference for chain...

There is nothing more erotic than the sound and feel of chains. Leather cuffs, collars, and chains... oh my! You know you're not getting loose. There's no chance of slipping a knot or stretching and wriggling out. You are restrained as firmly in place as He desires and are helpless to change that, finally free to surrender to the sensations of His will, free at last to immerse yourself whole and become one with the pleasure, writhing and luxuriating in the beauty of your surrender beneath His gaze, utterly responsive to His every whim.

I don't understand why, after reading someone's profile and not finding an interest, someone would contact the person just to tell them that they shouldn't be looking for a Dom until they're done being a parent so they're Dom can come first. As if they don't have any right to be happy as long as they're a committed parent! What is the point of doing that besides trying to cause hurt?!

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