Hi there. I’m into bondage. I switch, but historically have mostly topped, just because of the inclinations of my partners. I’m looking for a switch or a bottom. I’m not interested in a casual fling. I’m looking for someone open to the possibility of something long term if things work out.

I'm 41, and single. I'm bright. On a first impression I can come across as pretty serious, but my friends know that I have a sense of humour. I see the kinky stuff as being reserved for playtime, rather than as a full-time lifestyle. The rest of the time, I want a relationship of mutual respect with a woman who’s bright, kind, open-minded and honest.

If that strikes a chord, let me know and we can start to fill in some of the details…