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Male Switch, 22, dayton, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 28, Greenfield, Wisconsin
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Male Dominant, 54
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About whosontop
I'm an attached switch male looking for someone outside of my vanilla relationship. Before getting into this situation, I had an extremely enjoyable partner who I developed an exceptional give and take relationship. We explored mutual power exchange, some light bondage and various other kink. While I tend to enjoy being in control, the opportunity to submit and give myself to my partner to do as she wants was always exciting and a worthwhile change of pace. The best part of it all is our switch in control occurred organically often within the context of a single session and without the need to communicate it. I doubt I will find that kind of situation again but I wouldn't mind being surprised.
I attempted being a full time sub to an older woman for a short time but was disappointed with how it turned out. This is likely due to my occasional need to be in control and my tendency to be difficult with people who need control, sexually or otherwise. I'm not difficult for the sake of being difficult but I expect others to enjoy and accept challenge as I do. My Domme of course had no interest in this viewpoint and needless to say this did not work out. It was an enlightening experience as it gave me insight to a particular type of Domme who has only her interests in mind with no regard for her sub. That's fine, I get it but its not for me.
So my ideal find here would be someone who is comfortable being in control and relinquishing it. A full on sub might be difficult unless she is willing to challenge me as a Dom but I prefer someone who can really take control and not just push against mine. I am willing to try being a full time sub again but based on my previous experience, I doubt it would work. As I mentioned I am attached so I am not looking for someone who is interested in occasionally meeting up and being friends but does not want someone for a committed relationship. The one I am currently in should not be of any concern to you and if you are in a relationship I will remain out of your business.
I admit to having a lot of interest in kink so please take my likes and dislikes to heart. One way in which I could be a total submissive is body worship. I am completely weak for a woman with a nice body who enjoys it being appreciated. Anything from pussy and ass to under arms and feet, I would love to find a woman who wants me to submit and worship every inch of her as in this situation you will get no pushback from me. I have a particularly kinky fantasy related to this so if there are any soft Dommes who might be interested please contact me. |
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